MY FRIEND NEEDS HELP!!! PLEASE

tolkien123 — Fri Jul 30, 2010 9:31 pm

Author: tolkien123

Posted: Fri Jul 30, 2010 9:31 pm

Thanks! and I agree. The only problem is that he tends to always have this I am right and you are obiviously wrong additude when I try to talk to him about this issue. And by the way, I am a girl. My friend is a boy though. He is 15 and I am almost 15.

Theory of Emotions?

Waat — Fri Jul 30, 2010 8:52 pm

Author: Waat

Posted: Fri Jul 30, 2010 8:52 pm

Hi i'm just trying to understand how emotions work a bit better but i'm getting a bit confused because it seems no one really knows for sure how they do actually work.

Could some of you please inform me as to what the most commonly accepted theory of emotions are at the moment so i at least have a good chunk of solid and credible information about them that i can look through rather than just searching random user created articles through google lol.

Would greatly appreciate it,
Thank you.

Hypnosis beginner help 1st try and me being hypnotized

Zoran — Fri Jul 30, 2010 8:51 pm

Author: Zoran

Posted: Fri Jul 30, 2010 8:51 pm

Hi joshuagriffiths!

I think that you should try it on as many subject as you can find. I found it easier to practice on people I don't know then with those I know. Two main thing in my opinion are confidence and lot of practicing with different subject. After approach whatever happens keep your spirit high and feel confident because with every try you are becoming a better hypnotist. And at the end HAVE FUN, don't take it to seriously.

Best wishes!!!
Zoran

whats happened

Surrey Scamp's Sidekick — Fri Jul 30, 2010 8:24 pm

Author: Surrey Scamp's Sidekick

Posted: Fri Jul 30, 2010 8:24 pm

Hi PanicDave.....it's nice to have a new face on this thread. A few of us have kept it going for 2 years or so but we were in danger of becoming extinct on several occasions.

My health was really good in Norway Nicky. It was only on the last day that i felt i was fading and that was the first time i felt anxious. I was too busy to think about my health but i was aware that i'd perhaps overdone it again......

Berwick will be more of a relaxing break as i've been there so many times.......

I hope every one of you has a nice weekend and that your anxiety is kept a bay....

xxx

diaries of a guy who lives hard days

desperate788 — Fri Jul 30, 2010 8:16 pm

Author: desperate788

Posted: Fri Jul 30, 2010 8:16 pm

I'm sleeping , have a great night, see you tomorrow:) will be online for 5 mins more.

HELP...!!!!!

ICEMAN_MEX — Fri Jul 30, 2010 8:06 pm

Author: ICEMAN_MEX

Posted: Fri Jul 30, 2010 8:06 pm

You right,,
Sometimes she said the same I try to control her.
And as u said “when I was a teenager going through a wild, flighty stage” but she is nearly 28, studied psychology at college and today she is moving back to NOLA to study a PHD, so for me it does not mach, why you try to dump the good things you have for nothing, probably I judge her base on how I am since I’m a system programmer all the time I look for the root cause and fix it or a logical explanation, so I believe I could be part of the problem or haven’t found how to live with or make it better.

Now I know it’s time for move one and take care of my self, since I feel so drain mental and physical, so any help or advice will be really well appreciated.

Can I Turn Schizofrenic?

godislove3 — Fri Jul 30, 2010 7:51 pm

Author: godislove3

Posted: Fri Jul 30, 2010 7:51 pm

Im 18 years old and sometime back in the end of March I smoked weed about 10 times (Through about a 4 week period) in my my whole life.
The Last time out of those 10 times I had a really bad panic attack while I was high and became depersonalized. Ive been depersonalized up until now and today is Friday, July 30th 2010. At one point about 3 days ago I was learning to except this until I had one of the worst panic attacks Ive ever had Last Sunday after seeing the movie Inception ( What a hypochondriac huh?). Now every Day I feel my concentration, and memory decreasing, I'm unable to go to bed until 4 am and I feel that everyday I'm getting one step to losing ALL contact with reality eventhough I workout every day for 2 hours and Im eating better than I ever have my entire life. ( Not to mention Im taking cod liver oil every day because I heard it helps with mood, memory, concentration and brain development). Just alittle background information. The real topic is that I'm worried that eventually some where down the road I could become Schizofrenic because I have an Aunt who took some drug and never came out of the trip.

Borderline Personality Disorder

Mantis — Fri Jul 30, 2010 7:50 pm

Author: Mantis

Posted: Fri Jul 30, 2010 7:50 pm

A friend who is a trained psychologist and has over a decade of therapy experience has been telling me for months that I am a borderline, plus manic-depressive..the thing is I tried reading about it, and I don't see how it's anything other than symptoms of manic-depression.

Does anybody have this disorder? If so, what exactly is the main problem with people who have it, and how can they get rid of it?

This friend of mine said I need therapy, otherwise I'll always be alone, because I keep pushing everybody away, and that this is a borderline thing.
Why is this such a serious disorder, anyway?

Is this just anxiety?

scotty2hotty — Fri Jul 30, 2010 7:27 pm

Author: scotty2hotty

Posted: Fri Jul 30, 2010 7:27 pm

thanks, ive been really zoned out again. still cant do anything. saw a nutritionalist, so now im on a diet hopefully to get me well and get rid of the dreamworld feeling. also, doing acupuncture. i think its helping. it may be a problem wit my neck trapping nerves. il try anything at this point! hoping for a reply

Jazzz, the final

jazzz — Fri Jul 30, 2010 7:18 pm

Author: jazzz

Posted: Fri Jul 30, 2010 7:18 pm

I am so tired. Have been working all week which was scary in the beginning. My manager knew about my rehabmonths and facing him was not really a moment of proudness.. He was very kind and we will communicate my months gone as a sebatical..
I am so tired right now, really feel like smoking and sleeping for hoursss.. Life feels a bit boring right now, next week I'll get my new car which is exciting

Well, keep it up..Jazzz

ermm not sure if friend is on to my secret

leanne78 — Fri Jul 30, 2010 6:38 pm

Author: leanne78

Posted: Fri Jul 30, 2010 6:38 pm

I was talking to my friend today and she started asking about how much weight I have lost and when am i going to stop, and how I seem to be hiding my weightloss,

Could she be hinting that she know something isn't right,

I know my eating may not seem normal to how everyone eats but it seems normal to me

I am restricting and weigh myself everyday, and I do not like the way I look but I don't see it as a problem

Am i strong enough to quit smoking weed?

donnydarko — Fri Jul 30, 2010 6:35 pm

Author: donnydarko

Posted: Fri Jul 30, 2010 6:35 pm

hey mawkish, i too smoked throughout my undergrad. Heck. I smoked so much i think its the main reason i earned a bachelors degree. I dont remember much of my college years even though it between 2007-2009. What a blur, but what fun i had just blazing and enjoying the day. I can recall entering campus and attending certain classes high to enjoy the lecture. Good times, but man i how i dont remember on of that now. I guess thats a sign/clue to let me know that smoking is not the way to go. Otherwise you forget all those things that are meant to be remembered, celebrated and much more. Much like your writing! Make it memorable even for your own sake. Easier said thn done, and i mean look at me, im still smoking -- rolling a joint right now and bound to take another "high drive" contemplating on where I went wrong in my past. I too am unemployed, got little money in my pocket to suvive for awhile, but in dire need to get a job - work - eat - play - all with no drugs/herbs.

Hey Mawkish and anyone/eveyone else, i'm thinking of starting a new thread for TRUE people who want to really stop and become sober for a long length of time. In this new thread, we, the people who are doing through days of not unwinding can have a friend/online source/support (such as me) to talk to you daily on anything no matter how lewd the subject . . . long as we all stick together and support each other while maintaining soberiety. Call it a little social network embedded within a forum that encourages to stay clean. Just an idea that "sparked" up just now =)

Haven't talked to anyone in ages

Motivated — Fri Jul 30, 2010 6:24 pm

Author: Motivated

Posted: Fri Jul 30, 2010 6:24 pm

Don't jump to conclusions to quickly. Maybe you appear to her as if you're happy about everything too. My guess is that you haven't cried in front of her lately. Maybe she appears to you happy about the divorce, but at times, she cries or feels angry, at the loss & failure that anyone would naturally feel during divorce. One thing I'm sure about is that she & you both are not perfect. You each contributed productively & nonproductively to the marriage & divorce.

I just got back from a hike up a mountain & thought about love. As I hiked up a steep slope full of rocks, I discovered some rocks were sturdy & some slippery. I hoped I could make it up to where I wanted to go, but at times I became discouraged, embarassed & even pissed off when I slipped on a rock or fell. I even blamed the rock, "Stupid rock!" Yet, it wasn't the rock that caused my anger, but my unrealistic expectations, hoping that the rock would hold my weight, when it didn't have the power to. That doesn't mean I'll give up hiking. It just means I try to find rocks & footing that look more sturdy. It's probable I'll slip again, but it's worth the risk.

I think love involves hope, yet too much hope or unrealistic hope/expectations involve anger. It seems that the only way to get where we want to go (to give & receive love) is to take turns feeling hopeful then angry as we navigate our way through trial & error. Live & learn.

The state debate

Ben1987 — Fri Jul 30, 2010 6:18 pm

Author: Ben1987

Posted: Fri Jul 30, 2010 6:18 pm

[quote="kevsheldrake"]

quote:
Originally posted by Wildcard
As an example, I have used permanosis on subjects that I know are good and who don't know I'm a hypnotist.

Kev

That's interesting, Kev.

Could you elucidate more - were these subjects unaware of being hypnotized at all, or did you hijack some other hypnotist's subjects?

Best wishes,
Ben

Frustrated soul needs help

studentofthegame — Fri Jul 30, 2010 6:17 pm

Author: studentofthegame

Posted: Fri Jul 30, 2010 6:17 pm

yes, i'm glad you ask, i recommend these books to everyone.

Fear - the friend of exceptional people
Shape Shifter
Hunting the Shadow
Warrior

all by Geoff Thompson, are THE perfect books for you by the sounds of it. i have them all and they are great. do yourself a favour and get them. amazon have them

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