this subject & the topics that branch from it fasinate me - & only I wish I could spend more time tapping into it
Overall I think the idea that the misogynist is a woman hater is a "false one"
I truely dont believe that there are a band of men who classify themselves has heterosexual, that truely "hate" women. no more than exisits a band of heterosexual women that can claim to truly hate men.
we're just not wired that way...
I believe what the misogynist has is a fear
of women & 'her' precived power - its quite possible at some stage in the misogynist life he experianced 'her' (a woman) in a particularly negative way.
Its a I'll strike first.. incase you ever
strike me again, syndrome. I think these men have a distinct fear of women tapping into them or as they may ( falsly) see it manipulating
As I say I have'nt concluded fully yet .. but I believe the fat woman represents " mother" and wanting to possess " the fat woman" is something of a sub-culture ( in western society)
because 'he' is not suposed to want her
& I find the idea/or fact of the fat women being ill treated by her partner, to be false one. whilst I'm sure there are some men that will belittle a woman because of her weight, particularly if she had been slim/mer when they met.
I would bet, that the majority of women that are fat with husbands /partners have extremely loving & appreciative men. like I've said before I've seen & looked back on a lot couples relationships & the couple with the full figured woman, always seem to have good relationship.
& I only wished women that have low self esteem because they're full figured, would stop reading these trashy magazines, & newspapers that encourage them to feel inferior, they are not
& there are a lot of extremely
Decent ,loving ,caring men that are out there waiting to appreciate them.
They simply need to start lifting their esteem. & feeling better about themselves. I know the majority of women do - but, attentivness makes all the difference - nice clothes, hair, make up, nails.
& then begin to celebrate their figures with their men - dont hide behind dowdy clothing wear underware thats special.. sexy satins, when your alone thigh length chemises of silk & lace
I mean given the choice .. what child or man wants to lay their head on a boney ribcage... instead of a naturally
full & generous breast?