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NO TO RI O US
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Joined: 04 Nov 2009
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Thu Nov 05, 2009 12:06 am
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whats up hows it goin?i i have a problem and have no idea how to deal with it. lately i have felt hopeless. i feel i have lost my will in everything. i feel no joy about anything. i dont feel good about myself. why do we try so hard for something when in the end all we do is die? ive been sleeping a lot and been very lazy lately which is very unusual. i have an awesome talent a very good oppurtunity to go somewhere in life but i feel like i just dont care. whats the purpose in life? whats the point of it? i feel lonely. i have no feelings about anything. i dont feel good about my self after i do something good i feel like i dont care about anything anymore. i feel like im trapped and i have no way to get out. what can i do? am i depressed? where do i go? why cant i have a good feeling anymore. i feel so bland and i want it to stop. can any one help me? |
BDG123412
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Joined: 30 Oct 2009
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Thu Nov 05, 2009 12:14 am
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are you thinking of hurting yourself right now.... because you sound like you are really depressed |
NO TO RI O US
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Thu Nov 05, 2009 12:48 am
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no i just feel really lost. i feel like i have no hope for anything. how can i stop this?
i feel like i have no passion about anything. |
BDG123412
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Thu Nov 05, 2009 12:56 am
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Is there anything you like to do??? |
NO TO RI O US
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Thu Nov 05, 2009 1:10 am
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im not sure what i like anymore like i said i have something i am very good at but i feel no passion about it or anything anymore. what is the reason to live? |
BDG123412
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Thu Nov 05, 2009 1:29 am
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Your life will get better. I think BUT i am not sure that you are depressed because one of systems in depression is not liking what you used to love to do. By the way are you in the United States?? Because if you are in the united states and feel like you do not have reason to live please call this number
This helpline is confidential NO ONE will know if you call =)
1-800-784-2433 |
BDG123412
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Thu Nov 05, 2009 1:32 am
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You need to look at the positive side of life like when you were happy because looking at the positive side will help you get better and work your way through this. try to remember a time in your life when you were happy. |
NO TO RI O US
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Thu Nov 05, 2009 2:14 am
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does everyone have a purpose in life? |
NO TO RI O US
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Thu Nov 05, 2009 2:14 am
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does everything happen for a reason? |
Eple1
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Thu Nov 05, 2009 3:53 pm
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Yeah, these questions don't really have answers, and you know that.
The answer to your real question, however, is you're depressed. Since there's not really too much we can do here for such generalized sounding depression, could you please describe to us your drinking, eating, exercise habits, and whether or not you receive decent sun exposure? Do you regularly drink coffee and/or smoke cigarettes, marijuana (if it's not too personal of a question)? |
14thRoad
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Fri Nov 06, 2009 1:01 am
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If you don't see a point in the things you are doing even when successful, then most likely your perception is that you are not achieving anything reinforcing, rewarding, of true worth to you... those achievments and efforts are not getting you to where you really want to be. Perhaps you should try to clarify where you really want to be. Perhaps you have done that already and do not have any confidence that anything you do actually takes you closer. Then you need to break your goals into smaller steps that you CAN believe in and are willing to give a go. If your root problem is that you feel lonely and disconnected and anything you acheive which doesn't really address this fundamental issue is thus pointless, then you need to start doing things that specifically address this issue, or whatever is the issue that is at your heart right now. When you feel like you are actively doing something about it, you will start to feel better. |
14thRoad
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Fri Nov 06, 2009 1:32 am
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I do not think I was "put here on this planet for a reason". I don't subscribe to the whole God fairytale where my reason for exisence is for the purpose of providing a god with eternal playmates in heaven. I'm just here. That's just how it is. No-one really knows any more than that. I'm here with a human mind, human feelings and a human body. So all that is left for me is to count myself as one of the lucky ones, and make the most of it before I die. And the form that takes comes down to you as an individual and what makes YOU tick, honestly. I guess I take my over-riding purpose as being to stay alive and try to reach the potential I have to enjoy (or even just experience, learn) life's opportunities. That's what I believe I am 'meant' to do
Sometimes that just involves eating a pizza, and I feel entirely satisfied with my existence. |
koynas
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Fri Nov 06, 2009 6:37 am
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Are you a guy? What age are you, if you're OK about telling. Because if you are, you may just need to get a girlfriend, or at least fall for a girl. The meaning of life tends to return quicker that way. Just a thought. |
DeathForRomance
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Fri Nov 06, 2009 11:07 am
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quote:
Originally posted by Eple1
Yeah, these questions don't really have answers, and you know that.
The answer to your real question, however, is you're depressed. Since there's not really too much we can do here for such generalized sounding depression, could you please describe to us your drinking, eating, exercise habits, and whether or not you receive decent sun exposure? Do you regularly drink coffee and/or smoke cigarettes, marijuana (if it's not too personal of a question)?
These questions do have answers, if you believe in God. Everything happens to test your belief, and everyone was put down here to choose whether they go to Heaven or Hell.
God lets a little more harsh thing happen to some than others(trust me, I've been there), but that's because he has more faith in them. Sure, he knows everything. But he only knows it as it happens. He does NOT choose our fate. YOU choose YOUR fate.
I'm not telling you what to believe, but this is what I believe, and it's what's keeping me going. I just hope it helps... |
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