Candid wrote:Funny thread
Funny ? I am actually trying to help him but I don't believe that giving answer right away i.e. understanding things logically makes people change
TheOverseer wrote:It sounds to me like you derive a lot of self confidence from female attention, and physical fitness.
since you're no longer fit, then it appears you're not receiving the kind of female attention you were receiving before you lost your shape.
Since that happened, you feel deflated.
I'd suggest that you go to the gym, stick with a workout program and diet program, and get back into shape.
It'll give you something to focus on and will get you back into the physical shape you were in before...maybe even better.
Give it a good 3 months of effort and you'll look better, feel better, and get back some attention from the ladies...which will make you feel better again.
credibility: self experience and progression.