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Surfgrom1280
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Joined: 23 Jan 2013
Posts: 13
Mon Mar 04, 2013 4:59 pm
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| HELP***HELP***HELP*** |
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Hello,
Is there any way for a Man not to Relieve himself sexually? is it normal for the average male to need to; at a minimum once a week, i have gone close to a month but sometimes the urge is so powerful. i wish i could use that energy in other ways more creative ways. but i need it like i need a meal. I am 27 and when i am Deployed in the Military and trying to stay faithful i find the deep desire and need to relieve myself. the reason i mention the faithful part is because when i am back in the states with my significant other we have a regular and health sex life. obviously this is a habit that i have learned but is it possible to refrain completely? what techniques is there? any advice will be greatly appreciated and helpful.
thanks in advance |
jurplesman
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Joined: 21 Jun 2004
Posts: 14148
Location: Sydney, Australia
Tue Mar 05, 2013 2:15 am
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quote:
Originally posted by Surfgrom1280
Hello,
Is there any way for a Man not to Relieve himself sexually? is it normal for the average male to need to; at a minimum once a week, i have gone close to a month but sometimes the urge is so powerful. i wish i could use that energy in other ways more creative ways. but i need it like i need a meal. I am 27 and when i am Deployed in the Military and trying to stay faithful i find the deep desire and need to relieve myself. the reason i mention the faithful part is because when i am back in the states with my significant other we have a regular and health sex life. obviously this is a habit that i have learned but is it possible to refrain completely? what techniques is there? any advice will be greatly appreciated and helpful.
thanks in advance
Usually most men find relief in masturbation. |
Surfgrom1280
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Joined: 23 Jan 2013
Posts: 13
Tue Mar 05, 2013 12:19 pm
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I know that. Is there a way to avoid needing to at all? |
svmsudhir
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Joined: 04 Mar 2013
Posts: 4
Sun Mar 10, 2013 5:59 am
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U said once in a month. right? I see it is sign that says u r a normal human. So first of all, remove all negating feelings about that! it is just like other body functions which takes care of the chemical balances.
Now about the urge. Sex drive, like most of the human drives, is a basic way to induce certain motives and hence to achieve them - the action. If there is a intense Urge that means body is pushing you towards the sexual act that will maintain the chemical balance after the climax. Completely physical initiation. So, the urge is a genuine one! pl keep no hard feelings for it... 
We can beat this Urge with intellect and by deceiving our own body. Try this....
1. Whenever u feel it is starting, put ur self in rigorous physical activity like running, playing outdoor games, if possible climb down-n-up 60-70 + steps and so on.. As soon as u exhaust the body, its focus changes to recovery of the sugar (energy) level, enough oxygen, breathing, locomotion muscles etc.. no more sexual urge. The brain will stop poking. And you too start attending these primary emergencies and discard to move into sexual act.
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2. Exhaust ur Brain! get ur self indulged in a complex computation or start troubleshooting something. This triggers different circuits in the brain and the sex related circuits go on stand-by mode and die next.
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3. Sit down in "Padmasana" (the Yoga way). close ur eyes. take a few deep breaths. then shift ur thoughts ONTO the sexual urge... sounds strange? don't worry, just do it. Then try to feel its depth, origin and magnitude.. Feel good about it. caress the feeling..(not any body parts.. remember) you will feel Great! well go on. Accept mentally what the body is demanding and respect it... Continue to understand it in its fullness... and... there u r.... u will no more feel like doing ANYTHING AT ALL..
(I will not explain it here what happens. but check the results and revert if u like..)
All the best!
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