Must have integrity trust and all that blah blah. Helps greatly to be interested in the other person and for gods sake like them. I mean; my partner is an extremely interesting person. She blows me away. She is intelligent, funny. gorgeous. sexy, always there for me. selfless the list is endless. She likes completely different things to me and plenty the same, her hobbies are diverse but cool.
I encourage her do purse these because one must keep there own identity in a relationship. People do merge but they must not forget they are still individuals. You musn't do that. You are not just joe and jane, there is a joe and there is a jane.
Understanding. She is without doubt my best firend. If i was not with her as a partner. She would still be my best friend. She is so damn cool. I wish i was more like her. (i don't mean that in a weird way, but the way she see's and understands the world).
Oh yeh she musn't bitch about the fact that you play the xbox and normal bodily functions do kick in from time to time (fart).
Thats about it.