I'm 20 and my roommate is 50 and her boyfriend is 60.
I hate her boyfriend because he'san a**hole and has left her a few times in search of new donkey only to come crawling back.
He seems to be able to convince her of anything and her behavior is increasingly mimicking his. Suddenly her views have changed on things and she has become more close minded to please him. She would deny all of this because she never notices when she does this for guys.
I don't really care anymore, at this point I try to stay away.
Well the night before we were all talking and kind of getting along, they both know I don't like him but I can be polite and nice.
Then I look down at my phone because they got into one of their manic discussions where no one else matters or exists, which is another reason I avoid hanging out with them because there is no point half the time. Our other roommate agrees with me on that.
When I look back up I see her legs open, she has a dress on, and his hand his between there and he's like smiling at her and she's making her O faces. I'm so grossed out. this is the 100th time this has happened, but the first time I could clearly see what was happening. They always secretly touch themselves and think no one notices while we are all in the same room. Another reason I stay away.
So I say "get a room" and the 60 year old guy runs off to his house saying things like "that wasn't supposed to happen"
AND my roommate is trying to say sorry but then tries to explain herself to me. She always has to be right and she didn't see why I was so uncomfortable and said "it isn't like we are inviting you over to a 3some" and yet I'm the unwilling voyeur in all,of this and could not just leave the room because they were between me and doorway.
I try to explain to her it isn't right without my consent and that they can easily take it elsewhere and I don't want it to happen again.
She says she hopes one day I'm so hot for someone that the world melts away and no one else matters.
I don't think I'll forget about my good friends in the room just because I'm hot for whatever the ****. I have self control and it isn't right to assume everyone is okay with that. I don't throw away my friends for my lovers, but a lot of people seem to do that.
Am I wrong here or ??