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Postby Loner_Wolf » Mon Sep 19, 2016 1:30 am

Hey if you know, i been using this website to relevase anger from my peer in my school Past and people around where i live, i have anger journal relevase my emotion toward them but i been having Thought of them but i don't know how to have self-controlled,pelase gire any reason or advice?i still don't like the peer from my high school that I threw my medal and award.
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Postby Leo Volont » Mon Sep 19, 2016 11:28 am

Loner_Wolf wrote:Hey if you know, i been using this website to relevase anger from my peer in my school Past and people around where i live, i have anger journal relevase my emotion toward them but i been having Thought of them but i don't know how to have self-controlled,pelase gire any reason or advice?i still don't like the peer from my high school that I threw my medal and award.


I've been giving you plenty of advice. I suppose you don't agree with it, and so you have been completely ignoring it.

If you Really Want Advice, Well, YOU ALREADY HAVE IT... just Go back and carefully Read what has already been written to you, and About you.

and you can Add This: it Doesn't Make Sense that Everybody could be Bullying you. IT doesn't happen like that! Bullies are Territorial, Competitive and Jealous of Each Other. People rarely have to deal with more than One Bully. That Bully in effect protects them against ALL the Other Bullies ("Stay away from HIM... he is My Punk to Push Around"). So the most Probable Reality of your Situation is that you have One Whopper of a Persecution Complex. All of this Bullying is probably Half Imagination and Half Exaggeration. What you take as Bullying is probably just the Obvious Fact that People in General simply don't like you... people are Repulsed by your negativity and, yes, they are frightened away by what must seem to them to be your 'Insane Paranoia'. But telling you to "Get Lost" is NOT Bullying. If you Act the Way you do, you can't expect to be Liked. You are not a Likeable Person. You are about 15 degrees too far over the Edge with all your Hate and Bitterness to be Likeable. But THAT is Not Bullying, Is It?

but if you SAY you are being bullied, well, there are people, even here on This Page, who aren't used to Thinking Critically and Skeptically About Stuff, and they are likely to Believe You, and give you Sympathy and Support. But, honestly speaking, even if there are actual Bullies involved, well, as is usually the Case, they will Grow Up and Grow Out of their Bullying Tendencies, and they will likely convert their Ability to Be Dominant Group Members into actually becoming a Very Competent and Capable Social Beings. They become the Leaders. They become everybody's Best Friend. Having once been a Bully doesn't hurt them a bit, and may have indeed been a Help to them. but your Seething Anger and Hatred... well, I never heard of something like THAT going away. Look at yourself. You aren't Growing Out of Anything... doesn't it just seem that it is All Getting Worse and Worse and Worse for you?

I suspect that you must Enjoy all your Hate and all your Anger. You don't really want help, do you? You just want sympathy. And that will Only make you Worse. Feeling Sorry for you just Feeds into everything that is Wrong with you. Without being Institutionalized, and probably against your Will, I honestly see No Hope for you. Sometimes here at the Anger Management Page we have to deal with a Total Lost Cause, and with experience we learn how to take it in our stride...
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Postby Loner_Wolf » Mon Sep 19, 2016 1:07 pm

Look Leo violent if you wanna know the truth here it's the truth I got bullying in 9th grade over black peoples ,yes I don't like black people they called me name when I go outside in the real world,listen to me if you don't believe what I say then don't bother helping me because I do get bully by my family and peoples for homosexual remark.
You think it's great that people's think that you something else and you fought two problem and dealing peer that still talk about you I know they talked about me because I see in my two eye and they talk behind my back,I don't know what I am or who I am those advice think it''s going to help anyone every time I give something nice people's say something in the back and I don't like my family none one family member I like.
Here's a story a black gang called me out in front of school that I grab cigar and burn myself for their remark or how about girls treating me like sh** from my sister to peer that I might hate for the rest of my life I can't take a joke or laughs I want loneless over the fact they called gay fag because I didn't socialized over them in 8th grade,in subway a c*** and her boyfriend called me gay and make me sh** about myself.
The bullying didn't stop you know it's have not stop for that white people's and back people's,Hispanic people's attack me over homosexual remark and brutal truth, well this is life leo volvent you make every answer in this world but you don't those advice I try and it failed I got delusion dream and nightmare that I don't know what's going on,I cry and cry over comment I can't take the truth.
They bully by comment and manipulating me over doing stuff such as weed and skipping class I could not go to my favorite college because of them, I don't like black peoples over their stupid in mature way of life wake up life is full of unexpected failure and truth, I hate every way positive thinking it's sick no girls get the ugly guy or you become the most popular guy over night then you get bitches.
I hate my high-school peer over their fact to ruined my life,yes I am racism over every race even my race :idea:
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Postby Leo Volont » Mon Sep 19, 2016 9:15 pm

Dear Lone Wolf.

I read your Reply Carefully. And Nothing You Referred to is 'Bullying'. These People Just Hate you and they aren't afraid to say so to your Face. That is NOT Bullying. And with the Black People, well, the Way you describe it, it Sounds as though you were the One who Started It. You called THEM names! To Your Way of Thinking doesn't that Mean that 'You Were Bullying Them'!?

And, reading what you Wrote, it seems that one of the Main Reasons that people hate you is that you are Anti-Social. You Admit Here on our Forum to Hating People and apparently you make No Secret of It in the Society you Keep... or choose Not To Keep. You are probably Locally Famous for being so hateful, mean and nasty. All That is Your Fault!

You could Fix Yourself, but now, for the 8th or 9th Time, you Continue to try to Justify All of the Very Things that are Causing your Problem to Only Get Worse and Worse and Worse.

How can you Imagine that Anybody could Help you, given your Apparently Complete Dedication to Hatred and Negativity. You want Advice? Well, just Think About It! What do you Expect that Anybody could tell you? What I am telling you, and have been telling you, could be Open Up a New and Better Life for you, but you INSIST on staying right where you are, and apparently it makes you Happy Enough to have something to Complain About.
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Postby Loner_Wolf » Mon Sep 19, 2016 9:37 pm

No bullying someone by calling in your face and started a fight with a kid who literally doesn't want friend, i am sorry if anti-social but i raised like that i am and i am proud of it.
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Postby Leo Volont » Tue Sep 20, 2016 5:01 am

Loner_Wolf wrote:No bullying someone by calling in your face and started a fight with a kid who literally doesn't want friend, i am sorry if anti-social but i raised like that i am and i am proud of it.


If you are Proud of Everything that is Wrong with You, then how do you Expect to be Helped.

Your Problem IS your Pride.

But what exactly are you So Proud of?

Are you Famous for Anything? Have you Won any Awards? Did you 'Letter' in any Sports at the Varsity Level? Did you make the National Honor Society? Were you an Officer for any of the Clubs in your School? Did you receive Acceptance Letters from any Prestigious Universities? Were you Ever a Straight A Student? You KNOW what I am getting at! If you have NOTHING TO BE PROUD OF, then being Proud is Actually kind of Sort of Silly, isn't it?

In this Case you are Actually Proud that you are Dysfunctional to a Degree that almost Paralyzes you. the Way you Are Now, well, you Simply Cannot Function in Society. You will not be able to Get a Job and Keep it. You say you are being Bullied, but if you Watch Yourself Closely, you are Actually Going Out of your Way to Pick all of these Fights yourself, aren't you? You Are the One being a Trouble Maker, isn't that right? You do not DENY It... all you do is offer Justifications for Yourself -- that you have Every Good Reason On God's Green Earth for Hating Everybody.... and now we find that You are Proud of it, and you are Proud of It because that was how you were 'Raised'.


Well, have you Studied much Psychology? Unless People have Actual Health Issues, MOST Psychological and Social Problems stem from being RAISED in Dysfunctional Homes. Now, Nobody was RAISED Perfectly. We each come from a Family Background that includes some Degree of Dysfunction. BUT it is nothing to be PROUD OF! and our Duty to Ourselves and to our Society and to the World is to Fix these Personal Problems once we become Aware of Them.

SO, are you going to KEEP Arguing with Me, or are you ever going to finally just break down and decide you Need Our Help?
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Postby Just_dance » Sun Oct 16, 2016 11:58 pm

I can give you a good link - just write me in my private messages.
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