Tecnhiques for Hypnosis Script

Postby simonvee » Sat Oct 29, 2016 9:03 am

Hi all,

If I'm self hypnotizing myself to be more 'social and extroverted' for example, can someone give me any pointers on how to make my self-hypnosis more effective? Thanks

E.g.Visualization: 'See yourself in a big movie screen naturally striking up a conversation with strangers'

That's one method of doing it supposedly. To use visualizing techniques. Are there any other techniques that I can use?
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Postby Roady » Wed Nov 02, 2016 8:58 am

I would like to ask you:
Why don't you face your real problems?
You seem to be a-social (anxious maybe) and introvert and that may be a problem for you.

The question is actually: what is your real problem?
If you handle that, you won't need the "hypnosis" (which never is a solution for something imo).
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Postby simonvee » Wed Nov 02, 2016 9:06 am

No, not at all. I'm quite extraverted. I just want to be hyper extroverted. That is, going inside of bars and clubs and having the carefree, unfiltered and hyper social personality as I would when I drink alcohol. I would like to have that in me naturally.
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Postby Roady » Wed Nov 02, 2016 9:10 am

What would you achieve being "hyper extraverted" ?
Do you have a special goal with that?
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Postby simonvee » Wed Nov 02, 2016 9:12 am

Don't want to sound ego testicle but to pick up women. To cease the underlying problem of that would be not to pick up women or to be homo-sexual. I would not like that as the solution
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Postby Roady » Wed Nov 02, 2016 9:16 am

And .... what is that underlying problem if I may ask you?

Do you have a fear for connecting to women?
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Postby simonvee » Wed Nov 02, 2016 9:18 am

No. I just like women. I love connecting with them
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Postby Roady » Wed Nov 02, 2016 9:20 am

So, what is then the problem?
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Postby simonvee » Wed Nov 02, 2016 9:22 am

Approach anxiety.
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Postby Roady » Wed Nov 02, 2016 9:32 am

Okay,
and can you explain for yourself what exactly is so scary about approaching a girl?
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Postby simonvee » Wed Nov 02, 2016 9:35 am

It's not what a lot of men can do at will. Eg instantaneously approaching a group of five girls. It can be embarrassing getting shot down. It can mess up their self esteem.
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Postby Roady » Wed Nov 02, 2016 9:39 am

So you are scared that your self esteem will be destroyed if you approach a girl?
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Postby simonvee » Wed Nov 02, 2016 9:45 am

Through approach and rejection. However, we all know that rejections are inevitable. I just want to be numb to rejections. Completely numb. Also, to approach at will without any anxiety because this will undermine the outcome.

I also would like to add that it's not a low self esteem issue that I have. This approach anxiety is in all men. It is even in the best looking and most confident men. Often times afraid to go and talk to a girl on the street or at the bar because she is so stunning.
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Postby Roady » Wed Nov 02, 2016 9:58 am

I would search for a way to handle a rejection in stead of trying to be numb for rejection.

And it is a self esteem issue.
If it was not, you would n't care about rejection, because you know who you are.

I think that a "stunning" girl is more impressed by someone who is "himself", vulnerable, open and honest, having the bravery to show just who he is. Rather than somebody who is "extremely extrovert" just trying to "get" her.
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Postby simonvee » Wed Nov 02, 2016 10:08 am

I've met a guy who dated one of the most beautiful girls and he's too afraid to even approach at will. Simply it's because it's 'cold approach'.

Congruent behaviors is what attract women, that is true. I understand what you mean. If you were to walk up to a stunner and say 'I have to summon up the courage just to talk to you because I thought you're so beautiful', that would actually work most of the time because you are congruent with what you felt in the moment.

What I mean by extremely extravert I mean having the ability to approach virtually at will and saying the first thing that comes from the top of your mind (no lines or script). It's easier said than done. You can pick out any guy who you claim to have no self esteem issues and I'll point out the most 'intimidating' groups of girls in a club and I'll tell him to approach. Then I'll tell him to approach some more...
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