INFJ girl wrote:1)
my bf doesnt understand me and he says that i never want to go to his parents.he just doesnt get it.
i did so much for him and never got an apreciatiom for.
i feel a lot like i should just give up since i m allways gonna be number 2.
the problem is considering the health issues that he had it makes it even more difficult for me to let go..from guilt..
2) You are not responsible for his health issues. Therefore, you are free to not feel guilty about his health issues.
1) Why are you with someone who "doesn't understand" you, who doesn't appreciate you, and with whom you'll always be playing second fiddle?
~~~~~~Narcissistic mother in law
Where is the Mother-In-Law? You didn't mention that you married your boyfriend.