There is a man that I have known for three years and have loved for a long time but it never worked out for us. He couldn't open up, or one of us would move and it never worked out. A year ago I started dating a different man and even got engaged. I have been in contact with my "what if" man and things were completely different this time around. We connected like we never had before, admitted we both loved each other. I broke up with my fiancé for him. In the process of the breakup I lied to my new man a few times about the details of the breakup (how long I kept in contact with my ex, a few times I went to his house to get things) and he found out about them. He has serious trust issues from his last relationship which was a marriage that was over 7 years ago. He can't trust me now. To the point where he isn't sure he wants to be with me. He insists that he loves me and wants to be with me and I want the same but he says that he can't fully be with me because he can't trust me. We also live 10 hours apart from one another, and I have offered solutions to build back the trust and complete transparency and he will have none of it.
Am I wasting my time? Is it worth it to fight for this when I love him and he loves me?