cyberhacker wrote:My main problem is that I am too shy to do anything, but I am willing to try anything that makes sense.
How did you expect it to turn out? He messages you every day, time and time and time again. As you put it he always initiates. You never initiate and you are surprised that he eventually stops messaging?
More than likely he found a different girl that began initiating conversations with him. She showed interest in him, unlike your passive nature, waiting for him to initiate. Of course he will eventually find other things of interest and why should he not? Other than his birthday, you never initiate.
See how many times I used the word initiate in this response? That is your solution. There is no magical solution. There is no pill you can take, nor any surgery you can get, nor magic hypnotic method that will cure you being "too shy." If you want a relationship with this person or any other person, you must take responsibility and practice initiating. Practice, practice, practice initiating and in time you will feel more comfortable, you will be less shy. I'm not saying initiate by professing all of your feelings, etc. I'm saying in any relationship, you can initiate in simple ways, by saying hello, by asking a person how they are doing before being asked, by initiating conversations instead of always waiting for them to be first. Good luck practicing.