Bhavna_patel480 wrote: I thought I had a space to speak here. I just wanted to talk. I can't change anyone.
Don't give me that bull.
You posted again and again about changing your husband. When you convinced him to change, you thanked people in the forum. Now you want to change your mother.
There is nothing wrong with wanting to help people for the right reasons. But, you are wanting to change others because it makes you feel stressed. You feel anxiety because your husband smokes, you feel anxiety because your mother eats sweets.
The point is that trying to change others to alleviate your stress is unhealthy. You have a child that will undoubtedly cause you stress. As you age, you will cause them stress. Do you go to a forum asking how to change your child to relieve your stress? How about your child becomes a teenager and asks how to change you, because you are stressing the child?
Your mother is eating sweets because she likes them. Your mother is responsible for balancing her health and her happiness. It isn't up to you to change your mother, because you don't feel good.
You are welcome to your opinion, but don't act like you believe a public forum where you ask for advice, where you ask how to convince her!!! is innocently just a space for you to talk without receiving opinions you may not like.