Even after quitting

Postby seeingthelight » Fri Nov 17, 2017 1:29 pm

People still think you're up to the same old stuff. Anyone ever experience this?
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Postby seeingthelight » Fri Nov 17, 2017 2:50 pm

At times, it can be a form of manipulation and projection. It's best to focus on your goals and worry about the things that are within your control
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Postby dariaengse » Fri Nov 17, 2017 8:11 pm

Yep! I experience this and agree with you.

The way I see it I´m in for the long run, slowly morphing into an improved, stronger man. I really appreciate the friends who support me, helps me grow and maybe gets inspired to improve their own lives.

Other friends I kind of feel are bringing me down atm, not believing in me, maybe envious in some way. Like in a bucket with crabs, when one crab start reaching the top to escape, other crabs always grabs it and brings it right back down.
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Postby seeingthelight » Fri Nov 17, 2017 9:03 pm

You have to keep people like that at arms length. They want to see you fail, have there own personal agenda and don't have your best interest at all. It's not being anti-social by any means either. You're just choosing not participate in bad behavior. You have to stay focused on your goals and controlling the things you can
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