Why would work make me depressed?

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Postby quietvoice » Wed Feb 14, 2018 4:50 pm

victorias_secret wrote:changes I've made.
eating better

victorias_secret wrote:I dont understand. I am carrying out the advice. I have bought a juicer and following that you tube channel. that is following the advice.

Are you eating, or aren't you? Have you spent at least one full day on (fresh, raw) juices only?
I have bought a juicer and following that you tube channel. that is following the advice.

You say you bought a juicer. That doesn't say that you are using it. You say that you are following that channel. That doesn't say anything other than that you are watching it, does it? Please be more specific.
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Postby quietvoice » Wed Feb 14, 2018 5:03 pm

victorias_secret wrote:Yes I've went 3 full days on fresh raw juices only. (whats the big deal about it?)

Excellent. Are you going to go the distance . . . until you get all of that gunk out of your gut?
I don't know, for some reason, I don't believe that you did what you said here.
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Postby Richard@DecisionSkills » Wed Feb 14, 2018 9:16 pm

victorias_secret wrote:I am already on that diet and watch those youtube videos every other day.


victorias_secret wrote:How long does it take to get all the gunk out of my gut?


Lol. You watch the videos every other day. But the videos don’t answer that question, right? :roll: :roll:

People ignore other people that clearly demonstrate they are full of sh#@. You wonder why most people ignore you? You really can’t figure it out? Lol.

Besides self loathing, negativity, and lashing out at advice givers, you also lie. You want more people to not ignore you, stop lying to them. But, this takes us back to your desire for attention. It is easier to lie and get negative attention than to put in the effort to receive positive attention.
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Postby Candid » Thu Feb 15, 2018 7:52 am

victorias_secret wrote:How long does it take to get all the gunk out of my gut?


Forever, if you never get started.

Depression is unexpressed grief and rage. It leaks out in your posts here, the very safe way you've chosen to express your grief and rage over what Life has handed you so far. You need to get really pissed off, have a good cry over the state your life is in, and start standing up for yourself rather than cutting yourself and inviting others to put you down.
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Postby Richard@DecisionSkills » Thu Feb 15, 2018 1:23 pm

victorias_secret wrote:...dont know what to do if you dont believe me. the conversation just ends.


Exactly. The conversation ends when trust is gone. Besides the self-loathing and insulting those that provide advice, then you lie to them.

You wonder why people ignore you. You wonder why people don't participate in the give you more advice game. That is what happens when people discover you are a liar. It is hard, if not impossible to regain trust. Most people won't accept the, "I lied to you before, but look...now I'm starting to do it."

It is not right or wrong, good or bad. It just is. That is the way the world works Jason. You burn bridges when you lie to people, the conversation just ends.
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Postby Richard@DecisionSkills » Thu Feb 15, 2018 4:27 pm

victorias_secret wrote:then let it end dude!


Jason, you have asked why people ignore you. I'm providing you answers. You don't think that when you lie to people that it tends to end relationships?
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Postby KyCoo » Thu Feb 22, 2018 1:03 pm

Same, monotonous work. No scope for growth. No more learning.
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Postby Hamming » Sat Feb 24, 2018 7:39 am

Richard@DecisionSkills wrote:
victorias_secret wrote:I guess I can't connect with anyone.


And why is that?


where are earlier posts?
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Postby Richard@DecisionSkills » Sat Feb 24, 2018 1:38 pm

Hamming wrote:where are earlier posts?


His account was deleted by admin after he was reported for telling a person to go kill themselves.
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Postby Hamming » Sun Mar 11, 2018 8:27 am

Richard@DecisionSkills wrote:
Hamming wrote:where are earlier posts?


His account was deleted by admin after he was reported for telling a person to go kill themselves.

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