Postpartum Depression?

#30

Postby Richard@DecisionSkills » Sun Apr 22, 2018 1:36 pm

karin12414 wrote:I hope this is fake just so that no one is really dealing with this kind of stuff... But if it isn't, I hope you find the strength to get out. These people are trying to help. Please don't take advantage of that. Be safe!


Great.
User avatar
Richard@DecisionSkills
MVP
MVP
 
Posts: 9555
Joined: Sat Dec 08, 2012 2:25 am
Likes Received: 963


#31

Postby Candid » Sun Apr 22, 2018 1:38 pm

Hmm.
User avatar
Candid
MVP
MVP
 
Posts: 7639
Joined: Mon Oct 18, 2010 10:00 am
Location: Reading, England
Likes Received: 273

#32

Postby karin12414 » Sun Apr 22, 2018 1:39 pm

I'm sorry... I'll leave....
karin12414
Junior Member
 
Posts: 20
Joined: Thu Apr 19, 2018 7:39 pm
Likes Received: 0

#33

Postby Richard@DecisionSkills » Sun Apr 22, 2018 1:41 pm

No need. I'm sure you will eventually get bored or banned. I get it...when telephones were invented the inevitable prank call was to follow. Human nature I guess.
User avatar
Richard@DecisionSkills
MVP
MVP
 
Posts: 9555
Joined: Sat Dec 08, 2012 2:25 am
Likes Received: 963

#34

Postby karin12414 » Sun Apr 22, 2018 1:55 pm

What are you talking about?!? I'm not trying to prank anyone! I came here because I just felt helpless and desperate... Because I post on another topic I'm pranking now?? I already apologized for waisting your time... But that wasn't enough?? You had to call me a liar too.... Fine... Nothing I say or do will change your opinions... But I'm not a liar... I said that because it upset me to think someone would take advantage of people who just want to help... I meant it...

Forget it... I said I'd stop waisting your time.... I'm sorry....
karin12414
Junior Member
 
Posts: 20
Joined: Thu Apr 19, 2018 7:39 pm
Likes Received: 0

#35

Postby Richard@DecisionSkills » Sun Apr 22, 2018 1:56 pm

Keep trying....not a very sophisticated prank. You accelerated too fast and not subtle enough. And your language...well...anyway. Like I said, human nature.
User avatar
Richard@DecisionSkills
MVP
MVP
 
Posts: 9555
Joined: Sat Dec 08, 2012 2:25 am
Likes Received: 963

#36

Postby Candid » Sun Apr 22, 2018 1:58 pm

karin12414 wrote:What are you talking about?!? I'm not trying to prank anyone! I came here because I just felt helpless and desperate... Because I post on another topic I'm pranking now?? I already apologized for waisting your time... But that wasn't enough?? You had to call me a liar too.... Fine... Nothing I say or do will change your opinions... But I'm not a liar... I said that because it upset me to think someone would take advantage of people who just want to help... I meant it...

Forget it... I said I'd stop waisting your time.... I'm sorry....


Richard, hang your head. You turned out to be just like Karin's husband.
User avatar
Candid
MVP
MVP
 
Posts: 7639
Joined: Mon Oct 18, 2010 10:00 am
Location: Reading, England
Likes Received: 273

#37

Postby karin12414 » Sun Apr 22, 2018 2:10 pm

I get it! I'm a big joke now... I don't know what you mean by "escalated too quickly" I shared parts of my life with complete strangers because I don't have anyone else.... I just wanted some help... I didn't want this sh**... Just stop replying.. please... I don't want this sh**...
karin12414
Junior Member
 
Posts: 20
Joined: Thu Apr 19, 2018 7:39 pm
Likes Received: 0

#38

Postby Richard@DecisionSkills » Sun Apr 22, 2018 2:23 pm

karin12414 wrote: I don't know what you mean by...


A favorite phrase of a friend of mine that visits this forum periodically. I hope he is doing okay.
User avatar
Richard@DecisionSkills
MVP
MVP
 
Posts: 9555
Joined: Sat Dec 08, 2012 2:25 am
Likes Received: 963

#39

Postby karin12414 » Sun Apr 22, 2018 2:33 pm

What is your f***ing problem?!? Leave me alone! I'm not a man! I'll post a f***ing picture if you tell me how! I don't know if you just get off on bullying people here but it's not funny! Stop it! I said to stop replying... I said I was done talking.. why do you have to keep doing this? Please... Just stop....you got whatever you wanted..... so stop...
karin12414
Junior Member
 
Posts: 20
Joined: Thu Apr 19, 2018 7:39 pm
Likes Received: 0

#40

Postby Candid » Sun Apr 22, 2018 2:43 pm

Blimey!
User avatar
Candid
MVP
MVP
 
Posts: 7639
Joined: Mon Oct 18, 2010 10:00 am
Location: Reading, England
Likes Received: 273

#41

Postby Richard@DecisionSkills » Sun Apr 22, 2018 2:50 pm

karin12414 wrote: I said to stop replying...


It is a public forum.

Odd that you can suddenly go from “I’m so sorry, I apologize, I’m so weak, I’m so pathetic, I just want help, I will be quiet, I don’t know what to do, poor me” to hyper aggressive and wanting absolute 100% control.

What do you believe you get out of it?
User avatar
Richard@DecisionSkills
MVP
MVP
 
Posts: 9555
Joined: Sat Dec 08, 2012 2:25 am
Likes Received: 963

#42

Postby karin12414 » Sun Apr 22, 2018 4:42 pm

I wanted help... But this got twisted up for no reason... I'm not a liar... But I'm done with this site.... You don't know a thing about me or what I've been through... I'm sorry I got upset... I was wrong for that... I'm sorry... You're gonna think whatever you want... Whatever..
karin12414
Junior Member
 
Posts: 20
Joined: Thu Apr 19, 2018 7:39 pm
Likes Received: 0

#43

Postby Richard@DecisionSkills » Sun Apr 22, 2018 5:10 pm

karin12414 wrote: But this got twisted up for no reason...


There is very much a reason.

You get something out of it. I’m not sure what exactly. Maybe you get a sense of control, maybe validation or a “feel good” moment as each time you apologize and add some provocative detail, someone comes along to engage with you.

This then denies the possibility of a solution. A solution means the story ends and that doesn’t meet your needs.
User avatar
Richard@DecisionSkills
MVP
MVP
 
Posts: 9555
Joined: Sat Dec 08, 2012 2:25 am
Likes Received: 963


Previous

  • Similar Topics
    Replies
    Views
    Last post

Return to Depression