naila,hi! i agree,you can't do it for him....just support him as he does it... for yrs. my husband was a using junkie...have known him for 30+yrs. and watched it almost kill him
he put himself in detox,deciding he had to kick it or die...wasn't easy,still isn't...but he did it!
we have 2 beautiful daughters,a 2yr.old grandson and another grandson on the way!
EZ(our grandson)is tha apple of his eye,as are our daughters! you just have to trust in your ability to say no or yes to wether this relationship is good for you,safe for you....ain't gonna tell you gonna be easy,but if you are committed to staying with him,you cannot put yourself with him when he may be out in situations where he may be using or wanting to use... there were and are times i worry about my husband,even tho he has been clean for 12yrs. now...check to see if narc anonymous has an equivalent to al-anon in your area.. take care of yourself,please!!