I immediatlely "feel" if the person is a shy person or if the person doesn´t talk to me because of being rude or just having a bad day. Shy people still have the aura of kindness around them, even if they don´t say much
And when dealing with shy people I like to "bring them out". I might take over most of the talking, but I always make the shy person feel involved in the conversation. I feel a responsibility here and I like the feeling of "helping" un-shying
a shy person. I know how to do it when I have them in front of me. And I notice that shy people are drawn to me because of the way I put them in around the center in a group of people, without them feeling uncomfortble about it.
I think shy people are like all of us deep inside. I can´t say I am shy, but I react/communicate differently depending on who I talk to, doesn´t matter if I know the person well or not. But there are moments when I don´t talk much (belive it or not
) if I don´t feel comfortable with the other person for some reason.
So, all shy people out there - it´s not always your fault that you are shy or quiet... might be us non-shy people´s fault - at least partly.