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The maximum allowed filesize set in php.ini could not be determined. [AVATAR_PHP_SIZE_OVERRUN] => The avatar’s filesize is too large. The maximum allowed upload size is %1$d %2$s.
Please note this is set in php.ini and cannot be overridden. [AVATAR_URL_INVALID] => The URL you specified is invalid. [AVATAR_URL_NOT_FOUND] => The file specified could not be found. [AVATAR_WRONG_FILESIZE] => The avatar’s filesize must be between 0 and %1d %2s. [AVATAR_WRONG_SIZE] => The submitted avatar is %5$d pixels wide and %6$d pixels high. Avatars must be at least %1$d pixels wide and %2$d pixels high, but no larger than %3$d pixels wide and %4$d pixels high. [BACK_TO_TOP] => Top [BACK_TO_PREV] => Back to previous page [BAN_TRIGGERED_BY_EMAIL] => A ban has been issued on your e-mail address. [BAN_TRIGGERED_BY_IP] => A ban has been issued on your IP address. [BAN_TRIGGERED_BY_USER] => A ban has been issued on your username. [BBCODE_GUIDE] => BBCode guide [BCC] => BCC [BIRTHDAYS] => Birthdays [BOARD_BAN_PERM] => You have been permanently banned from this board.

Please contact the %2$sBoard Administrator%3$s for more information. [BOARD_BAN_REASON] => Reason given for ban: %s [BOARD_BAN_TIME] => You have been banned from this board until %1$s.

Please contact the %2$sBoard Administrator%3$s for more information. [BOARD_DISABLE] => Sorry but this board is currently unavailable. [BOARD_DISABLED] => This board is currently disabled. [BOARD_UNAVAILABLE] => Sorry but the board is temporarily unavailable, please try again in a few minutes. [BROWSING_FORUM] => Users browsing this forum: %1$s [BROWSING_FORUM_GUEST] => Users browsing this forum: %1$s and %2$d guest [BROWSING_FORUM_GUESTS] => Users browsing this forum: %1$s and %2$d guests [BYTES] => Bytes [CANCEL] => Cancel [CHANGE] => Change [CHANGE_FONT_SIZE] => Change font size [CHANGING_PREFERENCES] => Changing board preferences [CHANGING_PROFILE] => Changing profile settings [CLICK_VIEW_PRIVMSG] => %sGo to your inbox%s [COLLAPSE_VIEW] => Collapse view [CLOSE_WINDOW] => Close window [COLOUR_SWATCH] => Colour swatch [COMMA_SEPARATOR] => , [CONFIRM] => Confirm [CONFIRM_CODE] => Confirmation code [CONFIRM_CODE_EXPLAIN] => Enter the code exactly as it appears. All letters are case insensitive. [CONFIRM_CODE_WRONG] => The confirmation code you entered was incorrect. [CONFIRM_OPERATION] => Are you sure you wish to carry out this operation? [CONGRATULATIONS] => Congratulations to [CONNECTION_FAILED] => Connection failed. [CONNECTION_SUCCESS] => Connection was successful! [COOKIES_DELETED] => All board cookies successfully deleted. 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[EXPAND_VIEW] => Expand view [EXTENSION] => Extension [EXTENSION_DISABLED_AFTER_POSTING] => The extension %s has been deactivated and can no longer be displayed. [FAQ] => FAQ [FAQ_EXPLAIN] => Frequently Asked Questions [FILENAME] => Filename [FILESIZE] => File size [FILEDATE] => File date [FILE_COMMENT] => File comment [FILE_NOT_FOUND] => The requested file could not be found. [FIND_USERNAME] => Find a member [FOLDER] => Folder [FORGOT_PASS] => I forgot my password [FORM_INVALID] => The submitted form was invalid. Try submitting again. [FORUM] => Forum [FORUMS] => Forums [FORUMS_MARKED] => Forums have been marked read. 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[FTP_FSOCK_TIMEOUT] => FTP timeout [FTP_FSOCK_TIMEOUT_EXPLAIN] => The amount of time, in seconds, that the system will wait for a reply from your server. [FTP_FSOCK_USERNAME] => FTP username [FTP_FSOCK_USERNAME_EXPLAIN] => Username used to connect to your server. [FTP_HOST] => FTP host [FTP_HOST_EXPLAIN] => FTP server used to connect your site. [FTP_PASSWORD] => FTP password [FTP_PASSWORD_EXPLAIN] => Password for your FTP username. [FTP_PORT] => FTP port [FTP_PORT_EXPLAIN] => Port used to connect to your server. [FTP_ROOT_PATH] => Path to phpBB [FTP_ROOT_PATH_EXPLAIN] => Path from the root to your phpBB board. [FTP_TIMEOUT] => FTP timeout [FTP_TIMEOUT_EXPLAIN] => The amount of time, in seconds, that the system will wait for a reply from your server. [FTP_USERNAME] => FTP username [FTP_USERNAME_EXPLAIN] => Username used to connect to your server. [GENERAL_ERROR] => General Error [GB] => GB [GIB] => GiB [GO] => Go [GOTO_PAGE] => Go to page [GROUP] => Group [GROUPS] => Groups [GROUP_ERR_TYPE] => Inappropriate group type specified. [GROUP_ERR_USERNAME] => No group name specified. [GROUP_ERR_USER_LONG] => Group names cannot exceed 60 characters. The specified group name is too long. 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[LEGEND] => Legend [LOCATION] => Location [LOCK_POST] => Lock post [LOCK_POST_EXPLAIN] => Prevent editing [LOCK_TOPIC] => Lock topic [LOGIN] => Login [LOGIN_CHECK_PM] => Log in to check your private messages. [LOGIN_CONFIRMATION] => Confirmation of login [LOGIN_CONFIRM_EXPLAIN] => To prevent brute forcing accounts the board requires you to enter a confirmation code after a maximum amount of failed logins. The code is displayed in the image you should see below. If you are visually impaired or cannot otherwise read this code please contact the %sBoard Administrator%s. [LOGIN_ERROR_ATTEMPTS] => You exceeded the maximum allowed number of login attempts. In addition to your username and password you now also have to solve the CAPTCHA below. [LOGIN_ERROR_EXTERNAL_AUTH_APACHE] => You have not been authenticated by Apache. [LOGIN_ERROR_PASSWORD] => You have specified an incorrect password. Please check your password and try again. If you continue to have problems please contact the %sBoard Administrator%s. [LOGIN_ERROR_PASSWORD_CONVERT] => It was not possible to convert your password when updating this bulletin board’s software. Please %srequest a new password%s. If you continue to have problems please contact the %sBoard Administrator%s. [LOGIN_ERROR_USERNAME] => You have specified an incorrect username. Please check your username and try again. If you continue to have problems please contact the %sBoard Administrator%s. [LOGIN_FORUM] => To view or post in this forum you must enter its password. [LOGIN_INFO] => In order to login you must be registered. Registering takes only a few moments but gives you increased capabilities. The board administrator may also grant additional permissions to registered users. Before you register please ensure you are familiar with our terms of use and related policies. Please ensure you read any forum rules as you navigate around the board. [LOGIN_VIEWFORUM] => The board requires you to be registered and logged in to view this forum. [LOGIN_EXPLAIN_EDIT] => In order to edit posts in this forum you have to be registered and logged in. [LOGIN_EXPLAIN_VIEWONLINE] => In order to view the online list you have to be registered and logged in. 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[NOT_AUTHORISED] => You are not authorised to access this area. [NOT_WATCHING_FORUM] => You are no longer subscribed to updates on this forum. [NOT_WATCHING_TOPIC] => You are no longer subscribed to this topic. [NOTIFY_ADMIN] => Please notify the board administrator or webmaster. [NOTIFY_ADMIN_EMAIL] => Please notify the board administrator or webmaster: %1$s [NO_ACCESS_ATTACHMENT] => You are not allowed to access this file. [NO_ACTION] => No action specified. [NO_ADMINISTRATORS] => There are no administrators. [NO_AUTH_ADMIN] => Access to the Administration Control Panel is not allowed as you do not have administrative permissions. [NO_AUTH_ADMIN_USER_DIFFER] => You are not able to re-authenticate as a different user. [NO_AUTH_OPERATION] => You do not have the necessary permissions to complete this operation. [NO_CONNECT_TO_SMTP_HOST] => Could not connect to smtp host : %1$s : %2$s [NO_BIRTHDAYS] => No birthdays today [NO_EMAIL_MESSAGE] => E-mail message was blank. [NO_EMAIL_RESPONSE_CODE] => Could not get mail server response codes. [NO_EMAIL_SUBJECT] => No e-mail subject specified. [NO_FORUM] => The forum you selected does not exist. [NO_FORUMS] => This board has no forums. [NO_GROUP] => The requested usergroup does not exist. [NO_GROUP_MEMBERS] => This group currently has no members. [NO_IPS_DEFINED] => No IP addresses or hostnames defined [NO_MEMBERS] => No members found for this search criterion. [NO_MESSAGES] => No messages [NO_MODE] => No mode specified. [NO_MODERATORS] => There are no moderators. [NO_NEW_MESSAGES] => No new messages [NO_NEW_PM] => 0 new messages [NO_NEW_POSTS] => No new posts [NO_ONLINE_USERS] => No registered users [NO_POSTS] => No posts [NO_POSTS_TIME_FRAME] => No posts exist inside this topic for the selected time frame. [NO_FEED_ENABLED] => Feeds are not available on this board. [NO_FEED] => The requested feed is not available. [NO_STYLE_DATA] => Could not get style data [NO_SUBJECT] => No subject specified [NO_SUCH_SEARCH_MODULE] => The specified search backend doesn’t exist. [NO_SUPPORTED_AUTH_METHODS] => No supported authentication methods. [NO_TOPIC] => The requested topic does not exist. [NO_TOPIC_FORUM] => The topic or forum no longer exists. [NO_TOPICS] => There are no topics or posts in this forum. [NO_TOPICS_TIME_FRAME] => No topics exist inside this forum for the selected time frame. [NO_UNREAD_PM] => 0 unread messages [NO_UNREAD_POSTS] => There are no new unread posts for this topic. [NO_UPLOAD_FORM_FOUND] => Upload initiated but no valid file upload form found. [NO_USER] => The requested user does not exist. [NO_USERS] => The requested users do not exist. [NO_USER_SPECIFIED] => No username was specified. 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[POST_BY_AUTHOR] => by [POST_BY_FOE] => This post was made by %1$s who is currently on your ignore list. %2$sDisplay this post%3$s. [POST_DAY] => %.2f posts per day [POST_DETAILS] => Post details [POST_NEW_TOPIC] => Post new topic [POST_PCT] => %.2f%% of all posts [POST_PCT_ACTIVE] => %.2f%% of user’s posts [POST_PCT_ACTIVE_OWN] => %.2f%% of your posts [POST_REPLY] => Post a reply [POST_REPORTED] => Click to view report [POST_SUBJECT] => Post subject [POST_TIME] => Post time [POST_TOPIC] => Post a new topic [POST_UNAPPROVED] => This post is waiting for approval [POWERED_BY] => Powered by %s [PREVIEW] => Preview [PREVIOUS] => Previous [PREVIOUS_STEP] => Previous [PRIVACY] => Privacy policy [PRIVATE_MESSAGE] => Private message [PRIVATE_MESSAGES] => Private messages [PRIVATE_MESSAGING] => Private messaging [PROFILE] => User Control Panel [RANK] => Rank [READING_FORUM] => Viewing topics in %s [READING_GLOBAL_ANNOUNCE] => Reading global announcement [READING_LINK] => Following forum link %s [READING_TOPIC] => Reading topic in %s [READ_PROFILE] => Profile [REASON] => Reason [RECORD_ONLINE_USERS] => Most users ever online was %1$s on %2$s [REDIRECT] => Redirect [REDIRECTS] => Total redirects [REGISTER] => Register [REGISTERED_USERS] => Registered users: [REG_USERS_ONLINE] => There are %d registered users and [REG_USERS_TOTAL] => %d registered, [REG_USERS_TOTAL_AND] => %d registered and [REG_USERS_ZERO_ONLINE] => There are 0 registered users and [REG_USERS_ZERO_TOTAL] => 0 registered, [REG_USERS_ZERO_TOTAL_AND] => 0 registered and [REG_USER_ONLINE] => There is %d registered user and [REG_USER_TOTAL] => %d registered, [REG_USER_TOTAL_AND] => %d registered and [REMOVE] => Remove [REMOVE_INSTALL] => Please delete, move or rename the install directory before you use your board. If this directory is still present, only the Administration Control Panel (ACP) will be accessible. 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[SORRY_AUTH_READ] => You are not authorised to read this forum. [SORRY_AUTH_VIEW_ATTACH] => You are not authorised to download this attachment. [SORT_BY] => Sort by [SORT_JOINED] => Joined date [SORT_LOCATION] => Location [SORT_RANK] => Rank [SORT_POSTS] => Posts [SORT_TOPIC_TITLE] => Topic title [SORT_USERNAME] => Username [SPLIT_TOPIC] => Split topic [SQL_ERROR_OCCURRED] => An SQL error occurred while fetching this page. Please contact the %sBoard Administrator%s if this problem persists. [STATISTICS] => Statistics [START_WATCHING_FORUM] => Subscribe forum [START_WATCHING_TOPIC] => Subscribe topic [STOP_WATCHING_FORUM] => Unsubscribe forum [STOP_WATCHING_TOPIC] => Unsubscribe topic [SUBFORUM] => Subforum [SUBFORUMS] => Subforums [SUBJECT] => Subject [SUBMIT] => Submit [TB] => TB [TERMS_USE] => Terms of use [TEST_CONNECTION] => Test connection [THE_TEAM] => The team [TIB] => TiB [TIME] => Time [TOO_LARGE] => The value you entered is too large. [TOO_LARGE_MAX_RECIPIENTS] => The value of Maximum number of allowed recipients per private message setting you entered is too large. [TOO_LONG] => The value you entered is too long. [TOO_LONG_AIM] => The screenname you entered is too long. [TOO_LONG_CONFIRM_CODE] => The confirm code you entered is too long. [TOO_LONG_DATEFORMAT] => The date format you entered is too long. [TOO_LONG_ICQ] => The ICQ number you entered is too long. [TOO_LONG_INTERESTS] => The interests you entered is too long. [TOO_LONG_JABBER] => The Jabber account name you entered is too long. [TOO_LONG_LOCATION] => The location you entered is too long. [TOO_LONG_MSN] => The MSNM/WLM name you entered is too long. [TOO_LONG_NEW_PASSWORD] => The password you entered is too long. [TOO_LONG_OCCUPATION] => The occupation you entered is too long. [TOO_LONG_PASSWORD_CONFIRM] => The password confirmation you entered is too long. [TOO_LONG_USER_PASSWORD] => The password you entered is too long. [TOO_LONG_USERNAME] => The username you entered is too long. [TOO_LONG_EMAIL] => The e-mail address you entered is too long. [TOO_LONG_EMAIL_CONFIRM] => The e-mail address confirmation you entered is too long. [TOO_LONG_WEBSITE] => The website address you entered is too long. [TOO_LONG_YIM] => The Yahoo! Messenger name you entered is too long. [TOO_MANY_VOTE_OPTIONS] => You have tried to vote for too many options. [TOO_SHORT] => The value you entered is too short. [TOO_SHORT_AIM] => The screenname you entered is too short. [TOO_SHORT_CONFIRM_CODE] => The confirm code you entered is too short. [TOO_SHORT_DATEFORMAT] => The date format you entered is too short. [TOO_SHORT_ICQ] => The ICQ number you entered is too short. [TOO_SHORT_INTERESTS] => The interests you entered is too short. [TOO_SHORT_JABBER] => The Jabber account name you entered is too short. [TOO_SHORT_LOCATION] => The location you entered is too short. [TOO_SHORT_MSN] => The MSNM/WLM name you entered is too short. [TOO_SHORT_NEW_PASSWORD] => The password you entered is too short. [TOO_SHORT_OCCUPATION] => The occupation you entered is too short. [TOO_SHORT_PASSWORD_CONFIRM] => The password confirmation you entered is too short. [TOO_SHORT_USER_PASSWORD] => The password you entered is too short. [TOO_SHORT_USERNAME] => The username you entered is too short. [TOO_SHORT_EMAIL] => The e-mail address you entered is too short. [TOO_SHORT_EMAIL_CONFIRM] => The e-mail address confirmation you entered is too short. [TOO_SHORT_WEBSITE] => The website address you entered is too short. [TOO_SHORT_YIM] => The Yahoo! Messenger name you entered is too short. [TOO_SMALL] => The value you entered is too small. [TOO_SMALL_MAX_RECIPIENTS] => The value of Maximum number of allowed recipients per private message setting you entered is too small. [TOPIC] => Topic [TOPICS] => Topics [TOPICS_UNAPPROVED] => At least one topic in this forum has not been approved. [TOPIC_ICON] => Topic icon [TOPIC_LOCKED] => This topic is locked, you cannot edit posts or make further replies. [TOPIC_LOCKED_SHORT] => Topic locked [TOPIC_MOVED] => Moved topic [TOPIC_REVIEW] => Topic review [TOPIC_TITLE] => Topic title [TOPIC_UNAPPROVED] => This topic has not been approved [TOTAL_ATTACHMENTS] => Attachment(s) [TOTAL_LOG] => 1 log [TOTAL_LOGS] => %d logs [TOTAL_NO_PM] => 0 private messages in total [TOTAL_PM] => 1 private message in total [TOTAL_PMS] => %d private messages in total [TOTAL_POSTS] => Total posts [TOTAL_POSTS_OTHER] => Total posts %d [TOTAL_POSTS_ZERO] => Total posts 0 [TOPIC_REPORTED] => This topic has been reported [TOTAL_TOPICS_OTHER] => Total topics %d [TOTAL_TOPICS_ZERO] => Total topics 0 [TOTAL_USERS_OTHER] => Total members %d [TOTAL_USERS_ZERO] => Total members 0 [TRACKED_PHP_ERROR] => Tracked PHP errors: %s [UNABLE_GET_IMAGE_SIZE] => It was not possible to determine the dimensions of the image. [UNABLE_TO_DELIVER_FILE] => Unable to deliver file. [UNKNOWN_BROWSER] => Unknown browser [UNMARK_ALL] => Unmark all [UNREAD_MESSAGES] => Unread messages [UNREAD_PM] => %d unread message [UNREAD_PMS] => %d unread messages [UNREAD_POST] => Unread post [UNREAD_POSTS] => Unread posts [UNWATCH_FORUM_CONFIRM] => Are you sure you wish to unsubscribe from this forum? [UNWATCH_FORUM_DETAILED] => Are you sure you wish to unsubscribe from the forum “%s”? [UNWATCH_TOPIC_CONFIRM] => Are you sure you wish to unsubscribe from this topic? [UNWATCH_TOPIC_DETAILED] => Are you sure you wish to unsubscribe from the topic “%s”? [UNWATCHED_FORUMS] => You are no longer subscribed to the selected forums. [UNWATCHED_TOPICS] => You are no longer subscribed to the selected topics. [UNWATCHED_FORUMS_TOPICS] => You are no longer subscribed to the selected entries. [UPDATE] => Update [UPLOAD_IN_PROGRESS] => The upload is currently in progress. [URL_REDIRECT] => If your browser does not support meta redirection %splease click HERE to be redirected%s. [USERGROUPS] => Groups [USERNAME] => Username [USERNAMES] => Usernames [USER_AVATAR] => User avatar [USER_CANNOT_READ] => You cannot read posts in this forum. [USER_POST] => %d Post [USER_POSTS] => %d Posts [USERS] => Users [USE_PERMISSIONS] => Test out user’s permissions [USER_NEW_PERMISSION_DISALLOWED] => We are sorry, but you are not authorised to use this feature. You may have just registered here and may need to participate more to be able to use this feature. 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[WATCH_FORUM_DETAILED] => Are you sure you wish to subscribe to the forum “%s”? [WATCH_TOPIC_CONFIRM] => Are you sure you wish to subscribe to this topic? [WATCH_TOPIC_DETAILED] => Are you sure you wish to subscribe to the topic “%s”? [WELCOME_SUBJECT] => Welcome to %s forums [WEBSITE] => Website [WHOIS] => Whois [WHO_IS_ONLINE] => Who is online [WRONG_PASSWORD] => You entered an incorrect password. [WRONG_DATA_COLOUR] => The colour value you entered is invalid. [WRONG_DATA_ICQ] => The number you entered is not a valid ICQ number. [WRONG_DATA_JABBER] => The name you entered is not a valid Jabber account name. [WRONG_DATA_LANG] => The language you specified is not valid. [WRONG_DATA_WEBSITE] => The website address has to be a valid URL, including the protocol. For example http://www.example.com/. [WROTE] => wrote [YEAR] => Year [YEAR_MONTH_DAY] => (YYYY-MM-DD) [YES] => Yes [YIM] => YIM [YOU_LAST_VISIT] => Last visit was: %s [YOU_NEW_PM] => A new private message is waiting for you in your Inbox. [YOU_NEW_PMS] => New private messages are waiting for you in your Inbox. [YOU_NO_NEW_PM] => No new private messages are waiting for you. 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1. You are a well-known spammer.
2. Last time a well-known spammer was using the dynamic IP address which you got from your ISP (Internet Service Provider), your e-mail address or the username you have choosen.
3. Your ISP is well-known for a lot of spamming customers and is not fighting against spammers enough. [CONTACT_BLACKLISTED] => If you are not a spammer you can contact the board administration. [DOMAIN_BLACKLISTED] => The domain %1$s you have posted has been blocked because it is blacklisted. For details please see %2$s. [EMAIL_DOMAIN_BLACKLISTED] => The e-mail domain %1$s you have used for your e-mail address has been blocked because it is blacklisted. For details please see %2$s. [HTTPBL_BLACKLISTED] => Your IP %1$s or your username %2$s or your e-mail address %3$s has been blocked because it is blacklisted. For details please see %4$s. [RECHECK_SPAM] => Re-Check spam [RECHECK_SPAM_BREAK] =>
Normally spam check would been stopped here!

[RECHECK_SPAM_DNSMX] => E-mail domain would been blocked by DNS MX check.
E-mail domain: %s
[RECHECK_SPAM_DOMAINRBL_EMAIL] => E-mail domain would been blocked by following Domain-RBL DNS Blacklist(s):
[RECHECK_SPAM_DOMAINRBL_EMAIL_NEXT] => E-mail domain also would been found by following Domain-RBL DNS Blacklist(s):
[RECHECK_SPAM_DOMAINRBL_EMAIL_NO] => If blocking would be enabled or the settings for the Domain-RBL DNS Blacklists would been different then it would been blocked by following Domain-RBL DNS Blacklist(s):
[RECHECK_SPAM_DOMAINRBL_EMAIL_NOT] => E-mail domain would not been blocked but found by following Domain-RBL DNS Blacklist(s):
[RECHECK_SPAM_DOMAINRBL_EMAIL_URI] => E-mail domain: %1$s • Domain-RBL: %2$sLookup

[RECHECK_SPAM_DOMAINRBL_POST] => Posted domains would been blocked by following Domain-RBL DNS Blacklist(s):
[RECHECK_SPAM_DOMAINRBL_POST_NEXT] => Posted domains also would been found by following Domain-RBL DNS Blacklist(s):
[RECHECK_SPAM_DOMAINRBL_POST_NO] => If blocking would be enabled or the settings for the Domain-RBL DNS Blacklists would been different then the posted domains would been blocked by following Domain-RBL DNS Blacklist(s):
[RECHECK_SPAM_DOMAINRBL_POST_NOT] => Posted domains would not been blocked but found by following Domain-RBL DNS Blacklist(s):
[RECHECK_SPAM_DOMAINRBL_POST_URI] => Posted domain: %1$s • Domain-RBL: %2$sLookup
[RECHECK_SPAM_DOMAINRBL_SIGNATURE] => Domains used in signature would been blocked by following Domain-RBL DNS Blacklist(s):
[RECHECK_SPAM_DOMAINRBL_SIGNATURE_NEXT] => Domains used in signature also would been found by following Domain-RBL DNS Blacklist(s):
[RECHECK_SPAM_DOMAINRBL_SIGNATURE_NO] => If blocking would be enabled or the settings for the Domain-RBL DNS Blacklists signature would been different then it would been blocked by following Domain-RBL DNS Blacklist(s):
[RECHECK_SPAM_DOMAINRBL_SIGNATURE_NOT] => Domains used in signature would not been blocked but found by following Domain-RBL DNS Blacklist(s):
[RECHECK_SPAM_DOMAINRBL_SIGNATURE_URI] => Signature: %1$s • Domain-RBL: %2$sLookup
[RECHECK_SPAM_DOMAINRBL_WEBSITE] => Domain of website profile field would been blocked by following Domain-RBL DNS Blacklist(s):
[RECHECK_SPAM_DOMAINRBL_WEBSITE_NEXT] => Domain of website profile field also would been found by following Domain-RBL DNS Blacklist(s):
[RECHECK_SPAM_DOMAINRBL_WEBSITE_NO] => If blocking would be enabled or the settings for the Domain-RBL DNS Blacklists website profile field would been different then it would been blocked by following Domain-RBL DNS Blacklist(s):
[RECHECK_SPAM_DOMAINRBL_WEBSITE_NOT] => Domain of website profile field would not been blocked but found by following Domain-RBL DNS Blacklist(s):
[RECHECK_SPAM_DOMAINRBL_WEBSITE_URI] => Domain of website: %1$s • Domain-RBL: %2$sLookup

[RECHECK_SPAM_DOMAINS] => Posted domains: %s
[RECHECK_SPAM_EMAILDOMAIN] => E-mail domain: %s
[RECHECK_SPAM_EMAIL] => E-mail: %s
[RECHECK_SPAM_FOR] => Re-Check spam for %s [RECHECK_SPAM_HTTPBL] => Would been blocked by following HTTP Blacklist(s):
[RECHECK_SPAM_HTTPBL_DATA] => HTTP-BL: %1$s • found values: %3$sLookup
[RECHECK_SPAM_HTTPBL_NEXT] => Also would been found by following HTTP Blacklist(s):
[RECHECK_SPAM_HTTPBL_NO] => If blocking would be enabled or the settings for the HTTP Blacklists would been different then it would been blocked by following HTTP Blacklist(s):
[RECHECK_SPAM_HTTPBL_NOT] => Would not been blocked but found by following HTTP Blacklist(s):
[RECHECK_SPAM_IP] => IP: %s
[RECHECK_SPAM_IPRBL] => Would been blocked by following IP-RBL DNS Blacklist(s):
[RECHECK_SPAM_IPRBL_IP] => IP-RBL: %1$sLookup
[RECHECK_SPAM_IPRBL_NEXT] => Also would been found by following IP-RBL DNS Blacklist(s):
[RECHECK_SPAM_IPRBL_NO] => If blocking would be enabled or the settings for the IP-RBL DNS Blacklists would been different then it would been blocked by following IP-RBL DNS Blacklist(s):
[RECHECK_SPAM_IPRBL_NOT] => Would not been blocked but found by following IP-RBL DNS Blacklist(s):
[RECHECK_SPAM_NO] => Not blocked or found by any feature. Seems not to be spam or spammer. [RECHECK_SPAM_USERNAME] => Username: %s
[REPORT_SPAM_POST] => Report and delete spam post [SIGNATURE_BLACKLISTED] => The domain %1$s you have used for your signature has been blocked because it is blacklisted. For details please see %2$s. [WEBSITE_BLACKLISTED] => The domain %1$s you have used for your website has been blocked because it is blacklisted. For details please see %2$s. [WRONG_TIMEZONE] => You entered an incorrect timezone. Please stay on earth! [ATTACHMENT] => Attachment [ATTACHMENT_FUNCTIONALITY_DISABLED] => The attachments feature has been disabled. [BOOKMARK_ADDED] => Bookmarked topic successfully. [BOOKMARK_ERR] => Bookmarking the topic failed. Please try again. [BOOKMARK_REMOVED] => Removed bookmarked topic successfully. [BOOKMARK_TOPIC] => Bookmark topic [BOOKMARK_TOPIC_REMOVE] => Remove from bookmarks [BUMPED_BY] => Last bumped by %1$s on %2$s. [BUMP_TOPIC] => Bump topic [CODE] => Code [COLLAPSE_QR] => Hide Quick Reply [DELETE_TOPIC] => Delete topic [DOWNLOAD_NOTICE] => You do not have the required permissions to view the files attached to this post. [EDITED_TIMES_TOTAL] => Last edited by %1$s on %2$s, edited %3$d times in total. [EDITED_TIME_TOTAL] => Last edited by %1$s on %2$s, edited %3$d time in total. [EMAIL_TOPIC] => E-mail friend [ERROR_NO_ATTACHMENT] => The selected attachment does not exist anymore. [FILE_NOT_FOUND_404] => The file %s does not exist. [FORK_TOPIC] => Copy topic [FULL_EDITOR] => Full Editor [LINKAGE_FORBIDDEN] => You are not authorised to view, download or link from/to this site. [LOGIN_NOTIFY_TOPIC] => You have been notified about this topic, please login to view it. [LOGIN_VIEWTOPIC] => The board requires you to be registered and logged in to view this topic. [MAKE_ANNOUNCE] => Change to “Announcement” [MAKE_GLOBAL] => Change to “Global” [MAKE_NORMAL] => Change to “Standard Topic” [MAKE_STICKY] => Change to “Sticky” [MAX_OPTIONS_SELECT] => You may select up to %d options [MAX_OPTION_SELECT] => You may select 1 option [MISSING_INLINE_ATTACHMENT] => The attachment %s is no longer available [MOVE_TOPIC] => Move topic [NO_ATTACHMENT_SELECTED] => You haven’t selected an attachment to download or view. [NO_NEWER_TOPICS] => There are no newer topics in this forum. [NO_OLDER_TOPICS] => There are no older topics in this forum. [NO_VOTE_OPTION] => You must specify an option when voting. [NO_VOTES] => No votes [POLL_ENDED_AT] => Poll ended at %s [POLL_RUN_TILL] => Poll runs till %s [POLL_VOTED_OPTION] => You voted for this option [PRINT_TOPIC] => Print view [QUICK_MOD] => Quick-mod tools [QUICKREPLY] => Quick Reply [QUOTE] => Quote [REPLY_TO_TOPIC] => Reply to topic [RETURN_POST] => %sReturn to the post%s [SHOW_QR] => Quick Reply [SUBMIT_VOTE] => Submit vote [TOTAL_VOTES] => Total votes [UNLOCK_TOPIC] => Unlock topic [VIEW_INFO] => Post details [VIEW_NEXT_TOPIC] => Next topic [VIEW_PREVIOUS_TOPIC] => Previous topic [VIEW_RESULTS] => View results [VIEW_TOPIC_POST] => 1 post [VIEW_TOPIC_POSTS] => %d posts [VIEW_UNREAD_POST] => First unread post [VOTE_SUBMITTED] => Your vote has been cast. [VOTE_CONVERTED] => Changing votes is not supported for converted polls. [CLOSE_NOTIFICATION] => Report closed notification [DELETE_NOTIFICATION] => Report deleted notification [EDIT_NOTIFICATION] => Post edit notification [POST_APPROVE] => Post approval notification [POST_DISAPPROVE] => Post disapproval notification [POST_GLOBAL] => Global [POST_NOTIFICATION] => New post notification [POST_NOTIFY_EDIT] => edited post [POST_NOTIFY_NEW] => new post [POST_NOTIFY_REPLY] => reply [POST_QUEUE] => Post queue [POST_QUEUE_NOTIFICATION] => Queued post notification [QUEUE_NOTIFICATION] => Queued reply notification [QUEUED_POST] => queued post [REPLY_NOTIFICATION] => Post reply notification [REPORT_NOTIFICATION] => New report notification [REPORTED] => Reported [TOPIC_QUEUE] => Topic queue [PM_POST] => Hello %s You are receiving this notification because you are either an Administrator or a moderator of the %s forum. The following %s has been made in the topic %s Author : %s Topic URL : %s Subject : %s Topic type : %s Queued : %s Message : %s %s [PM_POST_APPROVE] => Hello %s, You are receiving this notification because you are either an Administrator or a moderator of the %s forum. The following queued post has been approved by %s in the topic %s Author : %s Topic URL : %s Subject : %s Topic type : %s Queued : %s Message : %s %s [PM_POST_DISAPPROVE] => Hello %s, You are receiving this notification because you are either an Administrator or a moderator of the %s forum. The following queued post has been disapproved by %s in the topic %s Author : %s Reason : %s Subject : %s Topic type : %s Topic type : %s Queued : %s Message : %s %s [PM_REPORT] => Hello %s, You are receiving this notification because you are either an Administrator or a moderator of the %s forum. The following report has been made by %s in the topic %s Topic URL : %s Report URL : %s Subject : %s Report reason : %s Report message : %s %s [PM_REPORT_CLOSE] => Hello %s, You are receiving this notification because you are either an Administrator or a moderator of the %s forum. The following report has been closed by %s in the topic %s Topic URL : %s Report URL : %s Subject : %s Report reason : %s Report message : %s %s [ADVERTISEMENT_MANAGEMENT_CREDITS] => Advertisements by Advertisement Management [MY_ADS] => My Advertisements [ABOVE_FOOTER] => Above Footer [ABOVE_HEADER] => Above Header [ABOVE_POSTS] => Above Posts [AFTER_EVERY_POST] => After Every Post Except First [AFTER_FIRST_POST] => After First Post [BELOW_FOOTER] => Below Footer [BELOW_HEADER] => Below Header [BELOW_POSTS] => Below Posts [0_OR_NA] => 0 or N/A [ACP_ADVERTISEMENT_MANAGEMENT_EXPLAIN] => Here you can change the Advertisement Management Settings, Add/Remove/Edit Advertisement Positions, and Add/Remove/Edit Advertisements. [ACP_ADVERTISEMENT_MANAGEMENT_SETTINGS] => Advertisement Management Settings [ADS_ACCURATE_VIEWS] => Accurate View Counts [ADS_ACCURATE_VIEWS_EXPLAIN] => Makes counting of Ad Views much more accurate, but increases server load. [ADS_COUNT_CLICKS] => Count Ad Clicks [ADS_COUNT_CLICKS_EXPLAIN] => If set to no, advertisement clicks will not be counted (less server load). [ADS_COUNT_VIEWS] => Count Ad Views [ADS_COUNT_VIEWS_EXPLAIN] => If set to no, advertisement views will not be counted (less server load). [AD_CREATED] => Ad Created [ADS_ENABLE] => Enable Advertisements [ADS_GROUP] => Advertisement Owner Group [ADS_GROUP_EXPLAIN] => Group the advertisement owners will be added to (not required, only if you want to add them to a specific group to keep track of them). [ADS_RULES_FORUMS] => Use Forum Rules for Ads [ADS_RULES_FORUMS_EXPLAIN] => If enabled, it allows you to control which forums each advertisement is displayed in. If you do not plan on using this you should set this to no so it uses less resources. [ADS_RULES_GROUPS] => Use Group Rules for Ads [ADS_RULES_GROUPS_EXPLAIN] => If enabled, it allows you to control which groups do/don't see specific advertisements. If you do not plan on using this you should set this to no so it uses less resources. [ADS_VERSION] => Advertisement Management Version [ADVERTISEMENT] => Advertisement [ADVERTISEMENT_MANAGEMENT_UPDATE_SUCCESS] => The Advertisement Management settings have been updated successfully! [AD_ADD_SUCCESS] => Advertisement Added Successfully! [AD_CLICK_LIMIT] => Ad Clicks Limit [AD_CLICK_LIMIT_EXPLAIN] => 0 to disable, otherwise the ad will become disabled after this number of clicks. [AD_CLICKS] => Ad Clicks [AD_CLICKS_EXPLAIN] => The current number of clicks for this advertisement (if setup correctly). [AD_CODE] => Ad Code [AD_CODE_EXPLAIN] => The Advertisement code you would like shown goes here. All code should be put in a raw HTML form, BBcodes are not supported.
If you would like to enable the click counter, use the {COUNT_CLICK} in any place where the onclick attribute is allowed (the a tag for example). [AD_EDIT_SUCCESS] => Advertisement Edited Successfully! [AD_ENABLED] => Ad Enabled [AD_ENABLED_EXPLAIN] => Uncheck to disable this advertisement from displaying. [AD_FORUMS] => Forum List [AD_FORUMS_EXPLAIN] => Select the forums where you would like this ad to be displayed. You may select multiple forums by holding down the CTRL key. [AD_GROUPS] => Groups [AD_GROUPS_EXPLAIN] => Select the groups you do NOT want this advertisement to be shown to. You may select multiple groups by holding the CTRL key while clicking more groups. [AD_LIST_NOTICE] => Ad Clicks will only be available if you used the {COUNT_CLICK} in a place that works with the onclick attribute. [AD_MAX_VIEWS] => Max Views [AD_MAX_VIEWS_EXPLAIN] => The maximum views before this advertisement will no longer be shown. 0 means no max limit. [AD_NAME] => Ad Name [AD_NAME_EXPLAIN] => This is only used for your recognition of the ad. [AD_NOT_EXIST] => The selected advertisement does not exist. [AD_NOTE] => Ad Notes [AD_NOTE_EXPLAIN] => Enter any notes for this advertisement if you'd like. These notes are not shown anywhere except in the ACP. [AD_OWNER] => Ad Owner [AD_OWNER_EXPLAIN] => The user who owns this advertisement (can see it in their advertisements panel). [AD_POSITIONS] => Positions [AD_POSITIONS_EXPLAIN] => Select the positions where you would like this advertisement to show. [AD_PRIORITY] => Ad Priority [AD_PRIORITY_EXPLAIN] => The higher the number the more likely the advertisement will be displayed. For example, an ad with a priority of 2 will be 2x as likely as an ad with a priority of 1 to be shown, 3 would be 3x as likely, etc, etc. [AD_TIME_END] => Run until [AD_TIME_END_BEFORE_NOW] => The end time you entered is before the time right now. Please make sure you are using a strtotime compatible date. [AD_TIME_END_EXPLAIN] => Enter a valid date to end the advertisement at. After the entered time the ad will be disabled automatically. Note that this uses the PHP strtotime function, so be sure to format it correctly or it will not be set.

This end date is not entirely accurate with timezones and such, so exact times should not be relied on. It is recommended that you plan on an accuracy of within 1 day of the given time. [AD_VIEW_LIMIT] => Ad Views Limit [AD_VIEW_LIMIT_EXPLAIN] => 0 to disable, otherwise the ad will become disabled after this number of views. [AD_VIEWS] => Ad Views [AD_VIEWS_EXPLAIN] => The current number of views of this advertisement. [ALL_FORUMS_EXPLAIN] => Select to show in all forums and pages. Note that if this is unchecked the advertisement will not show on non-forum related pages (like the FAQ page for example). [CREATE_AD] => Create Ad [CREATE_POSITION] => Create Position [COPY] => Copy [DELETE_AD] => Delete Advertisement [DELETE_AD_CONFIRM] => Are you sure you want to remove this advertisement? [DELETE_AD_SUCCESS] => The advertisement has been successfully deleted! [DELETE_POSITION] => Delete Position [DELETE_POSITION_CONFIRM] => Are you sure you want to remove this position? If you remove a position, any advertisements that were shown in that position will no longer be shown. [DELETE_POSITION_SUCCESS] => The position has been successfully deleted! [FALSE] => False [NO_ADS_CREATED] => No Ads Created [NO_AD_NAME] => You must set a name for the advertisement. [NO_POSITIONS_CREATED] => No Positions Created [POSITION] => Position [POSITION_CODE] => Position Code [POSITION_EDIT_SUCCESS] => Position Edited Successfully! [POSITION_NAME] => Position Name [POSITION_NAME_EXPLAIN] => The name of the position. [POSITION_NOT_EXIST] => The selected position does not exist. [POSTITION_ADD_SUCCESS] => Position Added Successfully! [POSTITION_ALREADY_EXIST] => You already have a position by that name. [TRUE] => True [PST_TITLE_ACP] => Similar Topics [PST_TITLE] => Precise Similar Topics II [PST_LEGEND1] => General Settings [PST_ENABLE] => Enable Similar Topics [PST_LEGEND2] => Load Settings [PST_LIMIT] => Number of Similar Topics to display [PST_LIMIT_EXPLAIN] => Here you can define how many similar topics to display. The default is 5 topics. [PST_TIME] => Search Period [PST_TIME_EXPLAIN] => This option allows you to configure the Similar Topics search period. For example, if set to “5 days” the system will only show similar topics from within the last 5 days. The default is 1 year. [PST_YEARS] => Years [PST_MONTHS] => Months [PST_WEEKS] => Weeks [PST_DAYS] => Days [PST_CACHE] => Similar Topics cache length [PST_CACHE_EXPLAIN] => Cached similar topics will expire after this time, in seconds. Set to 0 if you want to disable the similar topics cache. [PST_LEGEND3] => Forum Settings [PST_NOSHOW_LIST] => Do Not Display In [PST_NOSHOW_TITLE] => Do not display similar topics in [PST_IGNORE_SEARCH] => Do Not Search In [PST_IGNORE_TITLE] => Do not search for similar topics in [PST_ADVANCED] => Advanced [PST_ADVANCED_TITLE] => Click to set up advanced similar topic settings for [PST_ADVANCED_EXP] => Here you can select specific forums to pull similar topics from. Only similar topics found in the forums you select here will be displayed in %s.

Do not select any forums if you want similar topics from all searchable forums to be displayed in this forum. [PST_DESELECT_ALL] => Deselect all [PST_LEGEND4] => Optional Settings [PST_WORDS] => Special words to ignore [PST_WORDS_EXPLAIN] => Add special words unique to your forum that should be ignored when finding similar topics. (Note: Words that are currently regarded as common in your language are already ignored by default.) Separate each word with a space. Case insensitive. Max. 255 characters. [PST_SAVED] => Similar Topics settings updated [PST_FORUM_INFO] => “Do Not Display In”: Will not show similar topics in the selected forums.
“Do Not Search In” : Will not search the selected forums for similar topics. [PST_WARNING] => Similar Topics will not work with your forum. Similar Topics requires a MySQL 4 or MySQL 5 database. [PST_LOG_MSG] => Altered similar topics settings [PST_FULLTEXT_ADD] => Adding FULLTEXT index: topic_title [PST_FULLTEXT_DROP] => Dropped FULLTEXT index: topic_title [PST_FULLTEXT_PASS] => Your database is compatible with this MOD. Enjoy :-) [PST_FULLTEXT_FAIL] => WARNING: You should not install this MOD! Your database does not support FULLTEXT indexes. This usually means your topics table is not using the MyISAM storage engine required for this MOD to work. More information. [PST_DATABASE_FAIL] => WARNING: You should not install this MOD! Your database is not MySQL as required by this MOD. 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[image_height] => 27 [image_width] => 27 [imageset_id] => 2 ) [icon_post_report_spam] => Array ( [image_id] => 638 [image_name] => icon_post_report_spam [image_filename] => icon_post_report_spam.gif [image_lang] => [image_height] => 16 [image_width] => 16 [imageset_id] => 2 ) [topic_moved] => Array ( [image_id] => 639 [image_name] => topic_moved [image_filename] => topic_moved.png [image_lang] => [image_height] => 27 [image_width] => 27 [imageset_id] => 2 ) [topic_read] => Array ( [image_id] => 640 [image_name] => topic_read [image_filename] => topic_read.png [image_lang] => [image_height] => 27 [image_width] => 27 [imageset_id] => 2 ) [topic_read_mine] => Array ( [image_id] => 641 [image_name] => topic_read_mine [image_filename] => topic_read_mine.png [image_lang] => [image_height] => 27 [image_width] => 27 [imageset_id] => 2 ) [topic_read_hot] => Array ( [image_id] => 642 [image_name] => topic_read_hot [image_filename] => topic_read_hot.png [image_lang] => [image_height] => 27 [image_width] => 27 [imageset_id] => 2 ) [topic_read_hot_mine] => Array ( [image_id] => 643 [image_name] => topic_read_hot_mine [image_filename] => topic_read_hot_mine.png [image_lang] => [image_height] => 27 [image_width] => 27 [imageset_id] => 2 ) [topic_read_locked] => Array ( [image_id] => 644 [image_name] => topic_read_locked [image_filename] => topic_read_locked.png [image_lang] => [image_height] => 27 [image_width] => 27 [imageset_id] => 2 ) [topic_read_locked_mine] => Array ( [image_id] => 645 [image_name] => topic_read_locked_mine [image_filename] => topic_read_locked_mine.png [image_lang] => [image_height] => 27 [image_width] => 27 [imageset_id] => 2 ) [topic_unread] => Array ( [image_id] => 646 [image_name] => topic_unread [image_filename] => topic_unread.png [image_lang] => [image_height] => 27 [image_width] => 27 [imageset_id] => 2 ) [topic_unread_mine] => Array ( [image_id] => 647 [image_name] => topic_unread_mine [image_filename] => topic_unread_mine.png [image_lang] => [image_height] => 27 [image_width] => 27 [imageset_id] => 2 ) [topic_unread_hot] => Array ( [image_id] => 648 [image_name] => topic_unread_hot [image_filename] => topic_unread_hot.png [image_lang] => [image_height] => 27 [image_width] => 27 [imageset_id] => 2 ) [topic_unread_hot_mine] => Array ( [image_id] => 649 [image_name] => topic_unread_hot_mine [image_filename] => topic_unread_hot_mine.png [image_lang] => [image_height] => 27 [image_width] => 27 [imageset_id] => 2 ) [topic_unread_locked] => Array ( [image_id] => 650 [image_name] => topic_unread_locked [image_filename] => topic_unread_locked.png [image_lang] => [image_height] => 27 [image_width] => 27 [imageset_id] => 2 ) [topic_unread_locked_mine] => Array ( [image_id] => 651 [image_name] => topic_unread_locked_mine [image_filename] => topic_unread_locked_mine.png [image_lang] => [image_height] => 27 [image_width] => 27 [imageset_id] => 2 ) [sticky_read] => Array ( [image_id] => 652 [image_name] => sticky_read [image_filename] => sticky_read.png [image_lang] => [image_height] => 27 [image_width] => 27 [imageset_id] => 2 ) [sticky_read_mine] => Array ( [image_id] => 653 [image_name] => sticky_read_mine [image_filename] => sticky_read_mine.png [image_lang] => [image_height] => 27 [image_width] => 27 [imageset_id] => 2 ) [sticky_read_locked] => Array ( [image_id] => 654 [image_name] => sticky_read_locked [image_filename] => sticky_read_locked.png [image_lang] => [image_height] => 27 [image_width] => 27 [imageset_id] => 2 ) [sticky_read_locked_mine] => Array ( [image_id] => 655 [image_name] => sticky_read_locked_mine [image_filename] => sticky_read_locked_mine.png [image_lang] => [image_height] => 27 [image_width] => 27 [imageset_id] => 2 ) [sticky_unread] => Array ( [image_id] => 656 [image_name] => sticky_unread [image_filename] => sticky_unread.png [image_lang] => [image_height] => 27 [image_width] => 27 [imageset_id] => 2 ) [sticky_unread_mine] => Array ( [image_id] => 657 [image_name] => sticky_unread_mine [image_filename] => sticky_unread_mine.png [image_lang] => [image_height] => 27 [image_width] => 27 [imageset_id] => 2 ) [sticky_unread_locked] => Array ( [image_id] => 658 [image_name] => sticky_unread_locked [image_filename] => sticky_unread_locked.png [image_lang] => [image_height] => 27 [image_width] => 27 [imageset_id] => 2 ) [sticky_unread_locked_mine] => Array ( [image_id] => 659 [image_name] => sticky_unread_locked_mine [image_filename] => sticky_unread_locked_mine.png [image_lang] => [image_height] => 27 [image_width] => 27 [imageset_id] => 2 ) [announce_read] => Array ( [image_id] => 660 [image_name] => announce_read [image_filename] => announce_read.png [image_lang] => [image_height] => 27 [image_width] => 27 [imageset_id] => 2 ) [announce_read_mine] => Array ( [image_id] => 661 [image_name] => announce_read_mine [image_filename] => announce_read_mine.png [image_lang] => [image_height] => 27 [image_width] => 27 [imageset_id] => 2 ) [announce_read_locked] => Array ( [image_id] => 662 [image_name] => announce_read_locked [image_filename] => announce_read_locked.png [image_lang] => [image_height] => 27 [image_width] => 27 [imageset_id] => 2 ) [announce_read_locked_mine] => Array ( [image_id] => 663 [image_name] => announce_read_locked_mine [image_filename] => announce_read_locked_mine.png [image_lang] => [image_height] => 27 [image_width] => 27 [imageset_id] => 2 ) [announce_unread] => Array ( [image_id] => 664 [image_name] => announce_unread [image_filename] => announce_unread.png [image_lang] => [image_height] => 27 [image_width] => 27 [imageset_id] => 2 ) [announce_unread_mine] => Array ( [image_id] => 665 [image_name] => announce_unread_mine [image_filename] => announce_unread_mine.png [image_lang] => [image_height] => 27 [image_width] => 27 [imageset_id] => 2 ) [announce_unread_locked] => Array ( [image_id] => 666 [image_name] => announce_unread_locked [image_filename] => announce_unread_locked.png [image_lang] => [image_height] => 27 [image_width] => 27 [imageset_id] => 2 ) [announce_unread_locked_mine] => Array ( [image_id] => 667 [image_name] => announce_unread_locked_mine [image_filename] => announce_unread_locked_mine.png [image_lang] => [image_height] => 27 [image_width] => 27 [imageset_id] => 2 ) [global_read] => Array ( [image_id] => 668 [image_name] => global_read [image_filename] => announce_read.png [image_lang] => [image_height] => 27 [image_width] => 27 [imageset_id] => 2 ) [global_read_mine] => Array ( [image_id] => 669 [image_name] => global_read_mine [image_filename] => announce_read_mine.png [image_lang] => [image_height] => 27 [image_width] => 27 [imageset_id] => 2 ) [global_read_locked] => Array ( [image_id] => 670 [image_name] => global_read_locked [image_filename] => announce_read_locked.png [image_lang] => [image_height] => 27 [image_width] => 27 [imageset_id] => 2 ) [global_read_locked_mine] => Array ( [image_id] => 671 [image_name] => global_read_locked_mine [image_filename] => announce_read_locked_mine.png [image_lang] => [image_height] => 27 [image_width] => 27 [imageset_id] => 2 ) [global_unread] => Array ( [image_id] => 672 [image_name] => global_unread [image_filename] => announce_unread.png [image_lang] => [image_height] => 27 [image_width] => 27 [imageset_id] => 2 ) [global_unread_mine] => Array ( [image_id] => 673 [image_name] => global_unread_mine [image_filename] => announce_unread_mine.png [image_lang] => [image_height] => 27 [image_width] => 27 [imageset_id] => 2 ) [global_unread_locked] => Array ( [image_id] => 674 [image_name] => global_unread_locked [image_filename] => announce_unread_locked.png [image_lang] => [image_height] => 27 [image_width] => 27 [imageset_id] => 2 ) [global_unread_locked_mine] => Array ( [image_id] => 675 [image_name] => global_unread_locked_mine [image_filename] => announce_unread_locked_mine.png [image_lang] => [image_height] => 27 [image_width] => 27 [imageset_id] => 2 ) [subforum_read] => Array ( [image_id] => 676 [image_name] => subforum_read [image_filename] => subforum_read.png [image_lang] => [image_height] => 9 [image_width] => 11 [imageset_id] => 2 ) [subforum_unread] => Array ( [image_id] => 677 [image_name] => subforum_unread [image_filename] => subforum_unread.png [image_lang] => [image_height] => 9 [image_width] => 11 [imageset_id] => 2 ) [pm_read] => Array ( [image_id] => 678 [image_name] => pm_read [image_filename] => topic_read.png [image_lang] => [image_height] => 27 [image_width] => 27 [imageset_id] => 2 ) [pm_unread] => Array ( [image_id] => 679 [image_name] => pm_unread [image_filename] => topic_unread.png [image_lang] => [image_height] => 27 [image_width] => 27 [imageset_id] => 2 ) [icon_back_top] => Array ( [image_id] => 680 [image_name] => icon_back_top [image_filename] => icon_back_top.png [image_lang] => [image_height] => 11 [image_width] => 11 [imageset_id] => 2 ) [icon_contact_aim] => Array ( [image_id] => 681 [image_name] => icon_contact_aim [image_filename] => icon_contact_aim.png [image_lang] => [image_height] => 20 [image_width] => 20 [imageset_id] => 2 ) [icon_contact_email] => Array ( [image_id] => 682 [image_name] => icon_contact_email [image_filename] => icon_contact_email.png [image_lang] => [image_height] => 20 [image_width] => 20 [imageset_id] => 2 ) [icon_contact_icq] => Array ( [image_id] => 683 [image_name] => icon_contact_icq [image_filename] => icon_contact_icq.png [image_lang] => [image_height] => 20 [image_width] => 20 [imageset_id] => 2 ) [icon_contact_jabber] => Array ( [image_id] => 684 [image_name] => icon_contact_jabber [image_filename] => icon_contact_jabber.png [image_lang] => [image_height] => 20 [image_width] => 20 [imageset_id] => 2 ) [icon_contact_msnm] => Array ( [image_id] => 685 [image_name] => icon_contact_msnm [image_filename] => icon_contact_msnm.png [image_lang] => [image_height] => 20 [image_width] => 20 [imageset_id] => 2 ) [icon_contact_www] => Array ( [image_id] => 686 [image_name] => icon_contact_www [image_filename] => icon_contact_www.png [image_lang] => [image_height] => 20 [image_width] => 20 [imageset_id] => 2 ) [icon_contact_yahoo] => Array ( [image_id] => 687 [image_name] => icon_contact_yahoo [image_filename] => icon_contact_yahoo.png [image_lang] => [image_height] => 20 [image_width] => 20 [imageset_id] => 2 ) [icon_post_delete] => Array ( [image_id] => 688 [image_name] => icon_post_delete [image_filename] => icon_post_delete.png [image_lang] => [image_height] => 20 [image_width] => 20 [imageset_id] => 2 ) [icon_post_info] => Array ( [image_id] => 689 [image_name] => icon_post_info [image_filename] => icon_post_info.png [image_lang] => [image_height] => 20 [image_width] => 20 [imageset_id] => 2 ) [icon_post_report] => Array ( [image_id] => 690 [image_name] => icon_post_report [image_filename] => icon_post_report.png [image_lang] => [image_height] => 20 [image_width] => 20 [imageset_id] => 2 ) [icon_post_target] => Array ( [image_id] => 691 [image_name] => icon_post_target [image_filename] => icon_post_target.png [image_lang] => [image_height] => 9 [image_width] => 11 [imageset_id] => 2 ) [icon_post_target_unread] => Array ( [image_id] => 692 [image_name] => icon_post_target_unread [image_filename] => icon_post_target_unread.png [image_lang] => [image_height] => 9 [image_width] => 11 [imageset_id] => 2 ) [icon_topic_attach] => Array ( [image_id] => 693 [image_name] => icon_topic_attach [image_filename] => icon_topic_attach.png [image_lang] => [image_height] => 10 [image_width] => 7 [imageset_id] => 2 ) [icon_topic_latest] => Array ( [image_id] => 694 [image_name] => icon_topic_latest [image_filename] => icon_topic_latest.png [image_lang] => [image_height] => 9 [image_width] => 11 [imageset_id] => 2 ) [icon_topic_newest] => Array ( [image_id] => 695 [image_name] => icon_topic_newest [image_filename] => icon_topic_newest.png [image_lang] => [image_height] => 9 [image_width] => 11 [imageset_id] => 2 ) [icon_topic_reported] => Array ( [image_id] => 696 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Low Self-Esteem The Glue Of Women In Unhealthy Relationships

Self esteem - in this over-hyped field it's essential to distinguish fact from fiction.Self confidence - faith in your own abilities is so important in today's high-achieving world.

Postby fathom » Mon Sep 08, 2003 3:15 pm

Low self-esteem is the glue that holds women in unhealthy relationships

We've all seen them -- attractive, sweet, intelligent, popular girls -- involved in relationships with young men who are possessive, dominating, even abusive.

When they are younger, it's often caused by the fact that "bad" boys, being the ones who will bend or break the rules, are the more confident ones who more aggressively "chase" young women. So they are the ones who snare them before the "nice" guys, being more polite, have a chance.

But when a young woman stays in a relationship with someone who mistreats her or continues to seek out this kind of guy after being burned once, the "bad guy" may not be the only one with a problem. What causes young women to stay with or even seek out abusive relationships?

"Making bad choices in relationships is such a common pattern -- even for well-educated young women," says Dr. Carol Alt, a South Carolina State University sociologist, private therapist and hostess of a radio talk show dealing with relationships. "It's a pattern that's hard to break, but not impossible.
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Postby Mark Tyrrell » Tue Sep 16, 2003 10:00 pm

Interesting post. I think there are two things here. Firstly the 'bad boy' can seem exciting, 'edgy' with lots going on. However I think this has more to do with a phase some girls go through and, as they mature, become more attracted to mates who are in the long term a 'better bet" ( I realise I.m a man sticking my head over the parapet here :? People who do exciting things tend to excite others (in one study women found men more attractive when they went on fair ground rides with them as there pulse rate increased so did their feeliong of attraction). However as far as low self-esteem goes the research (by Maurice Rosenberg and Stanley Coopersmith) indicates that genuine low self esteem is produced by early conditioning relating to abuse either sexual/physical or both plus verbal bullying, being overly criticised etc.. If someone has been treated very badly for a long period of time they very often feel like 'damaged goods'


So if a woman, for example' has been conditioned to feel she is really no good then if may feel 'all wrong' if a man dotes on her and constantly tells her how wonderful she is. It feels wrong because it is a mis-match with her own perception of herself. The quickest way to break rapport with people who have genuine low self-esteem is to over praise and compliment them. The pattern is that very often they feel more familiarity with people who treat them badly, because low self-esteem is about treating yourself badly (being overly self-critical etc.) so an abusive relationship (where the victim is reluctant to leave or shows a patter of choosing such relationships)consists of two people actually working in alignment.

Low self-esteem can produce a distrust and wariness of people who treat you well. However as people become more confident and a better snse of self emerges then we find that the abusive relationship pattern becomes less tenable as it ceases to feel in any way right.
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Postby fathom » Tue Sep 16, 2003 10:18 pm

mark tyrrell wrote:Interesting post. I think there are two things here. Firstly the 'bad boy' can seem exciting, 'edgy' with lots going on. However I think this has more to do with a phase some girls go through and, as they mature, become more attracted to mates who are in the long term a 'better bet" ( I realise I.m a man sticking my head over the parapet here :? People who do exciting things tend to excite others (in one study women found men more attractive when they went on fair ground rides with them as there pulse rate increased so did their feeliong of attraction). However as far as low self-esteem goes the research (by Maurice Rosenberg and Stanley Coopersmith) indicates that genuine low self esteem is produced by early conditioning relating to abuse either sexual/physical or both plus verbal bullying, being overly criticised etc.. If someone has been treated very badly for a long period of time they very often feel like 'damaged goods'

Low self-esteem can produce a distrust and wariness of people who treat you well. However as people become more confident and a better sense of self emerges then we find that the abusive relationship pattern becomes less tenable as it ceases to feel in any way right.


Good to see you post Mark - you have too much wisdom that helps mold minds, to allow Roger all the glory! ;)

Interesting enough I was in a relationship that had these roles reversed, so can really appreciate your reasonings.

My military background, conditioning, and leadership skills helped keep me grounded from falling into a cycle but the damage was done nonetheless.

It took a long time to realize that self esteem (hers) played a major part of our relationship - and this can dragged people in without them realizing it - until too late.

Glad to see you on the board! :)
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Postby AiryLeigh » Fri Mar 26, 2004 1:59 am

mark tyrrell wrote:Interesting post. I think there are two things here. Firstly the 'bad boy' can seem exciting, 'edgy' with lots going on. However I think this has more to do with a phase some girls go through and, as they mature, become more attracted to mates who are in the long term a 'better bet" ( I realise I.m a man sticking my head over the parapet here :? People who do exciting things tend to excite others (in one study women found men more attractive when they went on fair ground rides with them as there pulse rate increased so did their feeliong of attraction). However as far as low self-esteem goes the research (by Maurice Rosenberg and Stanley Coopersmith) indicates that genuine low self esteem is produced by early conditioning relating to abuse either sexual/physical or both plus verbal bullying, being overly criticised etc.. If someone has been treated very badly for a long period of time they very often feel like 'damaged goods'


So if a woman, for example' has been conditioned to feel she is really no good then if may feel 'all wrong' if a man dotes on her and constantly tells her how wonderful she is. It feels wrong because it is a mis-match with her own perception of herself. The quickest way to break rapport with people who have genuine low self-esteem is to over praise and compliment them. The pattern is that very often they feel more familiarity with people who treat them badly, because low self-esteem is about treating yourself badly (being overly self-critical etc.) so an abusive relationship (where the victim is reluctant to leave or shows a patter of choosing such relationships)consists of two people actually working in alignment.

Low self-esteem can produce a distrust and wariness of people who treat you well. However as people become more confident and a better snse of self emerges then we find that the abusive relationship pattern becomes less tenable as it ceases to feel in any way right.


You just described part of my life. All my life I was told I wasn't good enough and when my first boyfriend started to hit me I defended him to ppl and I stayed for 2 and a half years.
And now with my current boyfriend I feel like I don't measure up for him. He constantly compliments me and praises me and I don't understand why. I feel like he's lying and I'll never live up to this image he has of me.
It's tearing us apart. I don't want to lose him and wish I could learn to believe him. But I just don't feel like I'm worth loving and I'm afraid he'll realize that. I end up sabotaging our relationship without even realizing it. I'm afraid to get too far in and be rejected. So I try to end it and push him away and when I realize what I'm doing I beg him not to leave me.
I've become so pathetic.
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Postby kfedouloff » Fri Mar 26, 2004 3:13 pm

Hi AiryLeigh!

I was on another forum today where somebody quoted this:
"during our lives, about 75% of the feedback we receive is negative. Of the 25% feedback that is positive, we receive 80% before we are 4 years old"


I don't know where the figure came from, but it certainly makes you think!

I think it is amazing that you have reached the insight that you have about your situation, and very hopeful. If you can see what the problem is, you have some hope of dealing with it!

Maybe you could look back now, and think about your experience. You said that you had been told all your life that you were no good - I wonder if you can recall when you FIRST became aware that you were receiving that message, and who from? And when you think about the person, or people, who were giving that message to a child, do you have any thoughts about what led them to do that, and whether they understood what the effects might be?

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Postby fandango » Fri Mar 26, 2004 5:03 pm

fathom wrote:So they are the ones who snare them before the "nice" guys, being more polite, have a chance.


This was my experience exactly. I have been through 2 physically abusive relationships, and have often wondered why! Part of it was that when I was 15, abusive bf #1 was the only person who asked me out and paid any attention to me, or at least that was how it seemed. My self-esteem was so poor, that only his blunt attempts were noticed.

And as far as abusers being bad boys, I've met plenty of nice guys (like my DH) who were "bad boys", as well as plenty abusers (like abusive bf #2) that appeared to be "nice guys".
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Postby Buffy » Mon May 03, 2004 11:12 am

This is a very interesting & sadly relevent issue for so many women right now.
There is little doubt in my mind that my childhood was unhelpful in equipting me to make good choices about potential partners.
I am sad that I clung onto an unhappy & confidence draining relationship that was well past its sell by date, but I am happy that when I was finally rejected by this 'bad man acting as a good man', I wanted to find out how I got there & avoid having that kind of relationship again.
Woman are always trying to find a balance between many aspects of their life, I craved ( and still do) a loving relationship, just not at any price.
I didn't consider my own needs before, just that I had to compromise & the alternative to that relationship was..... nothing.... who would want me.

Well that was my lack of confidence talking, there are always chances in life, but alone or in a relationship every woman must place her own needs at the top of her agenda in any relationship.
Women need to be reminded that any relationship that ignores or disrespects their own needs, does not have a place in their lives. This important message is often lost
when we see other high profile women accepting, infidelity, abuse & disrespect, aiding a cycle of negative messages to women.
Any message that could give courage & hope are whats needed to raise the issue of self esteem in many womens personal relationshaips.
Proof indeed that this type of site is so important, courage, hope, education... delightful cocktail....thank you
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Postby fathom » Tue May 04, 2004 6:51 am

Buffy wrote:Women need to be reminded that any relationship that ignores or disrespects their own needs, does not have a place in their lives. This important message is often lost
when we see other high profile women accepting, infidelity, abuse & disrespect, aiding a cycle of negative messages to women.
Any message that could give courage & hope are whats needed to raise the issue of self esteem in many womens personal relationshaips.
Proof indeed that this type of site is so important, courage, hope, education... delightful cocktail....thank you


Buffy agree totally but with a modification... All "men" and "women" need to be reminded...

It was only recently that I got corrected on a common misconception: "a relationship is 50/50" > unfortuately if both participants only apply themselves at 50%, there is no common ground for the relationship to build on particularly through the hard times.

It must be 100%/100% effort at 100% of the time and you can often see the early warning signs of less without venturing too far.

Welcome to Uncommon Forum! ;)
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Postby Buffy » Tue May 04, 2004 8:01 am

Yes I agree that the application should be equal, it was right for you to point this out. This is an emotive issue for me & there is a danger of being subjective.
That pesky low self esteem, oh well back to the confidence course for me, still removing bits of old glue.
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Postby fathom » Tue May 04, 2004 8:59 am

Buffy wrote:Yes I agree that the application should be equal, it was right for you to point this out. This is an emotive issue for me & there is a danger of being subjective.
That pesky low self esteem, oh well back to the confidence course for me, still removing bits of old glue.


Well I'll say that "posting" is an exceptional way to gain confidence in yourself, and over time it is also a good record to reflect and view your growth in self assurance.

From a single post to the next you rarely see a difference - but when seen over time you can notice the subtle changes in style and it is quite revealing and rewarding experience to sit back and say "look how much I've grown!"

Keep up the good work!
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Postby DaveDLT » Thu Oct 07, 2010 2:46 am

One of the things with this issue is that it is not specific to women and not to men.

In a relationship where a woman has low self-esteem, almost guaranteed the man has just the same.

So what is put out is that the woman must have low self-esteem to stay in an abusive relationship, especially physical abuse. But what is also going on is that the man has to have just as low self-esteem to feel the need to stay in a relationship where he gets so angry that he lashes out with physical abuse.

When you have two low self-esteem people in a relationship like that, the abuse goes both ways. It may take different forms, so one is easier to spot than another, such as physical abuse, but it is still there going both ways.

The most important principle I help people get when I heal them on relationships (in fact, it is the same with any issue), is that you get 100% of what you intend to give. This is observed all the time and I have never seen this principle fail. So you have the choice of what you will receive by what you choose to give.

Why people get 'stuck' in relationships is because they try to make their partner dependent on them. They try to make their partner 'stuck' with them. They do this because they have a fear that if they don't, their partner will leave. It is more important to them to be in a relationship whatever it is, than to only be in a loving relationship.

Because of this, they get what they are trying to give. They become dependent on their partner, even if their partner is abusive. So they become stuck in an abusive relationship.

To end this cycle once and for all, you need to change your focus and how you think of your relationship. You need to see your relationship as an opportunity to build up your partner in as many ways as you can. If you don't want to be stuck in a bad relationship, then you need to help empower your partner to be able to choose to have a loving relationship. Whatever you give your partner will come to you.

Where people mess this up is that they fool themselves into thinking that this is what they are doing when it isn't. They try to say that they were the one who just gave and gave and ended up being used. If this is happening then you need to be honest with yourself and see all the ways you tried to use your partner.

If you want to have healthy boundaries in your relationship, then help your partner have healthy boundaries. See how it makes you feel when your partner has healthy boundaries with you.

I hope this helps some people with their relationships. Relationships can be so happy when they go well and loving, yet so painful when they don't.

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