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Postby Lana_16 » Sun Jun 03, 2007 10:16 pm

Hey. Im 16 years old and a 32B.
I was just wondering exactly what size is considered small?

I was looking at a "boob site"
it was basically everything you need to know about them and alot of pictures about what was considered normal.
They didnt really look normal to me though.

i love how my nipples look [they are also very sensitive &i go crazy when they're being kissed/sucked] and so does my b/f and my ex. and they are both years older than me.
what i have noticed is that younger guys like bigger breasts.
but older men prefer smaller, is that because they know the outcome?
i mean, that bigger boobs get saggy and stuff.

Also, just wondering, what do men like more? big breasts and small butt. or small/normal breasts and cute bubble butt. or thick girls with big breasts&big butt?

I'm 5'3. weigh 110pounds. 32B. flat and tight stomach. curvy torso. cute bubble butt. little hips and thighs. petite but curvy in all the right spots. people tell me ive got a coke bottle body. lol. the only thing im self consious about sometimes are my breasts. 32B are pretty small. Im guessing that they will still grow since im pretty young. i used to be more self consious but im getting more confident. I really like the shape of my breasts too, i think if they just grew one cup size, they'd be perfect perky c's.

i work out too, so the muscles above and below my breasts are kind of toned.
do guys like that more than breasts that feel really fat?
i hooked up with a girl who was i think a full C and they felt kind of gross.
I prefer B-C's. but i like toned better...

guys and gals reply and let me know what you think..
Thanks
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Postby sea otter » Sun Jun 03, 2007 10:53 pm

A "B" cup size is a good size. B is considered to be like a good medium sized breast. Not too big and not small. 32 around your back is slim and petite.
I know as a young woman these things are important to think about. What you should NEVER do is compare yourself to others. There will always be someone with bigger breasts, smaller ect.

Just really try to learn to feel confident about your own body no matter what anyone else says or what others look like.

Different men like different size breasts/nipples. Some like small some like big, most like all sizes. So there is no need to be worried about the shape or look. At different ages boys verses men can like different sizes. Say if a young man has never been with a woman he might brag about big breasts and cut down small ones. But males with experience don't care too much about size.

Blooming into womanhood can be a trying time. Can you speak with your mother about this? Or a female school counciler?
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Postby satanstoystore » Sun Jun 03, 2007 11:12 pm

Or I could take one for the team. Tell satanstoystore all about you and the other girl. I don't mind.

Seriously though, I think sea otter makes a lot of sense. I know the more experienced I got the less important it became. To me what's really important is personality, communication and imagination.
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Postby vfr » Tue Jun 05, 2007 2:00 am

Lana_16 wrote:Hey. Im 16 years old and a 32B.
I was just wondering exactly what size is considered small?

I was looking at a "boob site"
it was basically everything you need to know about them and alot of pictures about what was considered normal.
They didnt really look normal to me though.

i love how my nipples look [they are also very sensitive &i go crazy when they're being kissed/sucked] and so does my b/f and my ex. and they are both years older than me.
what i have noticed is that younger guys like bigger breasts.
but older men prefer smaller, is that because they know the outcome?
i mean, that bigger boobs get saggy and stuff.

Also, just wondering, what do men like more? big breasts and small butt. or small/normal breasts and cute bubble butt. or thick girls with big breasts&big butt?

I'm 5'3. weigh 110pounds. 32B. flat and tight stomach. curvy torso. cute bubble butt. little hips and thighs. petite but curvy in all the right spots. people tell me ive got a coke bottle body. lol. the only thing im self consious about sometimes are my breasts. 32B are pretty small. Im guessing that they will still grow since im pretty young. i used to be more self consious but im getting more confident. I really like the shape of my breasts too, i think if they just grew one cup size, they'd be perfect perky c's.

i work out too, so the muscles above and below my breasts are kind of toned.
do guys like that more than breasts that feel really fat?
i hooked up with a girl who was i think a full C and they felt kind of gross.
I prefer B-C's. but i like toned better...

guys and gals reply and let me know what you think..
Thanks




"...just wondering, what do men like more? big breasts and small butt. or small/normal breasts and cute bubble butt. or thick girls with big breasts&big butt?"

They generally like em all Lana.

Be glad you got some sensitive nipples.

Some women can't feel much...above or below.

And don't go getting them pierced and screwed around with.

I think you spend too much time trying to analyze things.

No matter big or small, you will find some men that like em and some that don't.

Study up tantric lovemaking and you will be a hit no matter where you go.

And keep up the exercises for YOU and not just the boobs.

An important thing to remember Lana is that all beauty is not just in the body parts. Whether you got big cupcakes or small ones...they all suffer from age.

If a guy only like you for you breasts, then what happens when they start to go down hill or he finds a nicer pair to have and to hold?

Find a guy that like the total package and not just one thing Lana.

I'd tell you to not neglect what is inside and develop some inner beauty as well.

Too many women nowadays (as well as men) get trapped in looking for outer possessions to satisfy inner fulfillment Lana.


....My discussion of this topic from an earlier post.


"What ever happened to all the natural girls?"

I see a lot of girls at the pool and beach pierce their belly buttons and have crap hanging from it. They have charms on their shoelaces, charms hanging off their cell phones that seem glued to their ears and a cheap ring on every finger. If that was not enough, they glue all sorts of things on their fake fingernails from pumpkins to Steeler logos. Their 'cup cakes' are all plastic as well as their lips. If they don't silicone their breasts, then they tattoo them or their nipples are pierced.

I have to chuckle at all this breast decoration. Breasts don't need a damn thing to embellish them - they are perfect as is.

The girls pierce their genitals, have studs inside their lips, mouths, tongues and noses. Tons of piercings running up and down their ears. And many of them seem to have the sensitivity 'down there' of one that has been vibrating with a belt sander.

I don't look at porno much, I'm not a prude, but being a sex addict I had to cut it out about 95% if I wanted any peace. But in the off chance I take a peek, the sex seems so artificial and the girl has to be choked at the end by the guy or slapped around and abused. It is really not a turn on any longer. It is like watching robots having sex.

(...) writes: "This girl I am with now wants me to put my hand around her neck and choke her...not even during sex - like when we kiss or before sex. Is this normal?"


I guess choking is a natural progression for the search of higher highs with the insatiable sex addict. Same with all this external stuff that women grasp at seeking happiness - looking for inner fulfillment through outer possessions. (Men are graspers as well, but I am addressing the topic of natural women here.)

From: How to Want What You Have:

"People who dedicate their lives to the pursuit of sensual pleasure find that the more pleasure they get, the more they want. Small, ordinary pleasures soon lose their power to please and must be replaced with more intense or exotic ones. Heedless sensualists usually meet a bad end. They learn the hard way that their desires are relentless and insatiable."

Once in a while I see a nice, natural girl, without tons of makeup that exudes inner and outer beauty. Fresh pink skin, clean, plain and nicely groomed hair and dressed neatly. She may have mid length fingernails that are finished in clear coat and the only piercing on her are a couple of inconspicuous earrings. No, she is not a hot babe if one judges her by current trends, but she exhibits her 'hotness' in a way that seems to be lost nowadays...freshness and wholesomeness.

Now, I seldom get a chance to talk with these wholesome beauties at length to really get to know them, so I can only judge them by externals. No doubt surface appearance is not always reliable, and their inner beauty may not match their outer beauty, but at least it is a start in the right direction.


Good luck


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Postby sea otter » Tue Jun 05, 2007 9:02 pm

Breasts don't suffer from age, not until a woman is really old, elderly.
I think breast feeding drains them, no pun intended.
I've seen friends whose breasts got very saggy and flat, like a pancake hanging from their chest from breast feeding their children. That to me is still beautiful in a different way.

When a woman has medium to large breasts they hang a little more as she ages but still look sexy.

The health of a womans breast also depends on weight. If you get really big, the breasts can too. Then they may hang along the waistline :shock: .

If a woman becomes very skinny they can sag and look droopy from being full earlier on.

With proper diet and exersice and maintaining a heathy weight an older woman can have beautiful breasts.

Women should not worry about aging. 40/50 now a days isn't what it used to be. And if your 16 now, I believe women will look even better by the time your my age.
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Postby vfr » Wed Jun 06, 2007 1:24 am

sea otter wrote:Breasts don't suffer from age, not until a woman is really old, elderly.
I think breast feeding drains them, no pun intended.
I've seen friends whose breasts got very saggy and flat, like a pancake hanging from their chest from breast feeding their children. That to me is still beautiful in a different way.

When a woman has medium to large breasts they hang a little more as she ages but still look sexy.

The health of a womans breast also depends on weight. If you get really big, the breasts can too. Then they may hang along the waistline :shock: .

If a woman becomes very skinny they can sag and look droopy from being full earlier on.

With proper diet and exersice and maintaining a heathy weight an older woman can have beautiful breasts.

Women should not worry about aging. 40/50 now a days isn't what it used to be. And if your 16 now, I believe women will look even better by the time your my age.


Yes, 40 or 50 is nothing to some breast.

But sooner or later they may go downhill some...it is natural law.

As you say, taking care of oneself through diet and exercise is the answer to being at peace with our bodies and aging.

The hard job is making time and doing what we know is right sometimes.

I knew a lady that had tiny, tiny pancake breasts and ugly nipples.

But she had a pretty face, a beautiful disposition, nice butt and she was an exceptional ejaculator.

So her positives more than made up for her negatives in my opinion.

But others may find female ejaculation a turn off and just go for certain size breasts.

Everyone is different with their sexual and relationship demands.

But if one wishes to be at peace within, hating one's body is not a good start.




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Postby Lost_Princess » Fri Jun 08, 2007 8:29 pm

Oh believe me big boobs aren't what they are made out to be. I am a size 36DD/38DD and I bloody hate them they annoy me and men are such perverts usually. I'd rather have your size! Sometimes tops look stupid on me and I can't find dainty, cute, sexy bras normally they are okay looking but cost me a fortune! I think you should embrace what you have, bit rich coming from me though
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Postby sunchild » Sat Jun 09, 2007 4:51 am

hi launa
as i was reading the thread as VFR said you are being very analytical about your body
accept the way you are , because thats the best in you
people come in various shapes and sizes , all of them live , enjoy life and live it to the max,
and every person has a different view on body , for instance i am not that crazy about tits and stuff, but i have more appeal towards girls who have beautiful smile, hair.
so love the way you are
take care.
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Postby sea otter » Sun Jun 10, 2007 1:42 am

Lost Princess I know how you feel. It's really pathetic that there are only small, medium and large shirt sizes for all breast sizes. And men do stare. I don't like it and I have good self esteem. I don't like the "hungry" look.
If I wear a baggy shirt they don't notice.....but a tank top :roll: !!!

I understand about the bra pains too. Seems they only make Double Barreled Gazunga Hammock Hangers :lol:
(don't blame me for that one, it was my husband who made it up! He's one of the "hungry ones" :o :lol:
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Postby hellogoodbye » Tue Jun 12, 2007 8:34 pm

Let me give a male perspective on this and say not all blokes like big breasts!

Look aside from my depression which makes it impossible to form relationships (i dont have problems getting a phone number its just i often cant be arsed lol) im a typical bloke in his early 20's who goes out and gets drunk a lot and I can tell you not all of us like big breasts.

Personally small breasts do it for me, big ones really turn me off, all my mates are different, its all down to personal preference.

Just dont go around thinking all blokes want Pamela Anderson breasts on their gfs as many of us like Keira Knightley breasts too ;)
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Postby dark fairy » Wed Jun 13, 2007 8:06 am

men are happy with my boobs, they fit in their hands with some leaking around the sides. even tho big boobs are nicer in apperance, smaller boobs can be better to feel nd are not in ure face so much...as ive been told.lol
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Postby Lana_16 » Thu Jun 14, 2007 7:19 am

u guys are great :)
thanks for the replys.

hmmm. it took me awhile to get totally comfortable with them.
i always used to think that ALL guys DID like big breasts. and when my boyfriend told me he loved mine, i just thought he said it to be nice.
But now i believe him :)
lol


&&to the ppl saying i should take care of my whole body, not just my breasts, well i DO. i go to the gym around 4x a week. for about 2-3 hrs each time. i do cardio and then weights for like EVERY single part of my body. lol
i guess im obsessed with getting toned. but i dont wanna be muscular like a guy. im still working on finding what machines work best for me.
&&trying to eat healthier and more. thats very important too.

sooo. im trying to slim my theighs a bit. i tried running, but i lost soo much wieght, i hated it. a size 0 got loose on me :(
i still wanna keep my butt.
any suggestions?
does working on the machine bike thing work?
thats wut im trying right now && a whole bunch of other machine w/ weights
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Postby abundancelaw » Thu Jun 14, 2007 3:52 pm

Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder.

Look around you. There are all sorts of couples around. Sometimes a beautiful lady is the wife of a plain dowdy man. Sometimes a handsome hunk has an ugly betty for a wife.

Sometimes a big fat woman with no personality has a charming skinny husband.

Point is,,, all sorts are attractive. Size does not matter. Looks neither.

As long as there is attraction. :)
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Postby Big Tony » Thu Jun 14, 2007 4:15 pm

you think small breasts are a problem?! try being a young man with breasts big enough to feed a litter of cats :(

it's not easy going through life with people shouting stuff like "hey look it's the tittie-man!", "what's up b!tch tits?", "do you have to lift those up and wash underneath them in the shower?", "love you Pamela, I thought you were great on Baywatch!" or just general abuse like "BOING BOING BOING!!" etc :(

so ehhh be happy with what you got, things could be worse... look at me.
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Postby sea otter » Fri Jun 15, 2007 10:12 pm

Tony people are so cruel. I am sorry you have to listen to that meanness from others. One thing is that at least you know what some people are really like. No fakin you out with hidden agendas. That in a way must save you a lot of time weeding out the assholes from nicer people. Some people have to befriend those jerks, only to find out after wasting a lot of time that their so called friend ended up being a complete jerk (to say it mildly) and not worth knowing.

It's like you have an exray machine to be able to see into those types. That can be an advantage if viewed differently.

Do you have a thyroid condition?
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