Hi, I'm female 35 yo. I've been married for 1.5 years now. I have a problem that makes me trauma everytime I remember it.
When we got married, I didn't know that my husband had relationship with shemales/transgender. Later on, I caught him in the act when he was chatting with one of his shemale friends. He denied it at first, and was a bit upset that I caught him. I was more shocked. Why would he have relationship with shemale anyway?
Short story, finally I had a chance to talk to this shemale he was chatting. This shemale told me that my husband loved her (I am not sure in what level), and she said their friendship was too beautiful to stop (cause I wanted them to stop communicating). This shemale told me about everything that I've never heard from my husband's mouth such as he ever had a serious relationship with a shemale in his hometown. I was so shocked and started to imagine all the sex relationship happened with both of them. I really don't have any idea why he did that, and why he didn't tell me since day one I knew him.
Now, he always in denial about this, but I know that he always browse naked pictures of shemales at night or when I am not around. He never tell why he likes the shemales. All he said was they were human too and they had women's personality. I couldn't stand it for he is still doing it until now. I don't know where to seek help as he beg me to not telling this to his family. He loves me a lot and so do I, but facing the reality like this, I couldn't imagine how my family would go (I'm pregnant now).
Could someone help me what to do? All I can do right now is just praying that he would leave his "world" and step with me to reach our future and dreams.
Thank you for listening this...