so for the past six months i've decided to say so what if i go red, so what what people say, it me if that's who i am i'm going to accept it and i really think its working,
th echris.Bel wrote:I'm 24 male, I was asked at work today why i go so red, which prompted me to find something on the net to explain it, so here i am... I've been going red for no reason for about 10 years now and it used to really get to me down years ago and even now i can find my self asking why do I do it, why ? In side i'm the most confident young lad on this planet. but someday's with out much warning, someone can say something or do something and that's it, here I go again and as we all know theirs alway's someone who say ''look how red he's going'' which makes it ten times more of a deal, but i would like to think this can be beaten so for the past six months i've decided to say so what if i go red, so what what people say, it me if that's who i am i'm going to accept it and i really think its working, I always used to go red when talking to my boss, not because i was scared of him, just because it was my boss and now I find my self chatting to him more and more.... I still go red time to time like.
another senario was i'm walking down a street and bump into a old work friend and thats it I'm off, It's such a strange thing who knows why it happens ??????? I have day's and weeks were i don't go red, then weeks and days when i never stop, maybe it's just some kind of chemical/psychological reaction .....
but it's great to see other people understand.
epacheco wrote:My boss always makes me blush and I'm sure it's just psychological. I see her coming to my office to ask me probably the most general question and I think about turning red and I do. Just now the old director came in and introduced himself and sure enough I turned red. It drives me crazy and makes me feel like crying afterward. I can talk in front of large groups and it doesn't happen, but introduce me to one person and I'm a tomato. I am such a confident person and outgoing. It makes no sense to me.