desperate788 wrote:Ä± have dreamed about only women when Ä± have a active fantasy live in my adolescent life and they were always on top..I haven't had sex with dudes.
I'd call a TMI on that, but it's more interesting to admit that whenever I think about sex I picture a woman on top as well... weird. It's nice though, women on top i mean... it's kind of like a hand-free kit for your cellphone.
As for the OP's question...
Yes you can live without sex. I was a virgin at 19, I lived 19 years without sex and did not die (though i sure as hell tried to have sex like i live depended on it). If you're asking whether a person can be "happy" without sex, that's another matter.
I think happiness is possible without sex (or a partner), but there will always be moments when you feel you are lacking something in life, something profound, and in my experience, those feelings don't really go away... you are never truly fulfilled (something is missing as i said). I believe romantic relationships are a necessary and healthy part of life... you wont die without them, but they do add something significant to your life.
It's not about success or failure, it's purely about happiness, contentment.
I'm not sure what the problem is and why you can't seem to have a relationship. Mostly when people have problems forming relationships, the problems are elsewhere, and have to be addressed locally, rather than globally. Lack of confidence and self esteem is i suppose the number one relationship aptitude killer, but the problem could be anything. You need to figure this part out for yourself, basically...
What you need to keep in mind is that relationships do not "just happen"... they require input and effort from you. You cannot just "live life" and never actively seek a relationship and just hope that one day it'll all magically fall into your lap... that's not how it works... even though some people put in this effort without even realizing it, the point is, those people don't generally have relationship issues.