Archimedes wrote:I dated a girl for almost a year. I was completely head over heels for this girl and things were great. We were best friends, did everything together. Then I caught her lying to me, when she took a plane to visit her ex in Boston (she told me she was visiting her parents for the weekend). I forgave her, and forgot about it (big mistake). A month or two later she is acting real weird and distant, saying she needs time alone, we hadn't spoken for 2 weeks.
Next Thing I know a mutual friend pulls me aside to tell me that she had gotten engaged to her ex (within the two weeks we weren't speaking). I confronted her about it and its all true. Of course my life collapsed completely after this news.
I saw her one more time before she left to move in w the new hubby. She said goodbye (w sex) and that was it.
I have not seen or spoken to her since. Its been about 8 months now and there are still parts of me that miss her. obviously getting back together is not a choice and I never wanted that anyways. I was just wondering if she will ever contact me again. It would be nice to get an apology or something from her. I really was a great bf to her and she knows it, so I find it hard to just be tossed away.
Is it an eventuality that she will call me or can someone literally erase a person out of their life??
Quite normal to miss someone you were /are in love with. Although you need to keep in mind that if she were to contact you again it might not necessarily be a positive thing. She could come back only to break your heart all over again.
She's already demonstrated the capability.