Psyc wrote:Hey guys, I need some help in boosting my self esteem and confidence.
I have been watching myself 3 month from now to see what are my problem exactly to post them here and hope any of you can help.
1. I am shy.
2. I don't go out a lot.
3. I don't talk to girls a lot.
4. I am afraid of talking to girls because I always think that I will be rejected.
5. I am afraid to do a lot of things because I think that other will make fun o me no matte if I think those things are true or false.
6. I am not a guy who is afraid to go out and meet new people but the problem is I don't know how to do it.
Thanks in advance guys.
thank you for sharing your troubles here.
Inspite of that, I'm happy to know that your troubles are curable and not as deep to those other postings here.
I would suggest you initially cooperate on things you like to do and make sure you are with some of your friends that you know will not judge you. Having more experience will help you settle yourself towards insecurity. Probably your experiences are less and you can increase that by putting a lot effort on getting involved.