I’m a bit lost right now. Almost 1 year ago I met this guy, at first everything was great then I’ve found out that he has lied to me about so many things, I forgave him, but then we broke up, because of all the drama in his life. He was separated from his wife, but they were still living together for the sake of the children. The soon to be ex-wife hated me and was threatening him to take away the kids and fake an assault so he would go to jail. He has Bipolar and she has filmed one of his breakdowns. She has PTSD, but think she has some mental issues as well.
I did not hear from him in months, then we briefly talked online, to me this was a pretty bad conversation, he’s said he was sorry about dragging me into his mess, he should have known better and ending it earlier. Now 1 month later he texted me saying I was right all along and that they had a big fight and she was arrested for domestic violence. Now she moved out and can’t talk to him for 1 month. He says she won’t be moving back in and he does not want anything to do with her, but he has changed his mind once already, so I’m afraid he’ll do it again, especially when the court rules that she gets full custody. I know he is stressed out and anxious about everything, I want to be there for him, but I already know I will end up being hurt again. I still love him and wish we could find a way to be together, but it’s not only the issue with her, he has issues himself. Not even sure why he’s contacted me, he probably just needed someone to talk to that knows the truth already and I was always there for him. I fear this will only be temporary, in case she gets custody or they share, then she would not want him to talk to me and in case he gets it, he won’t have time anyway.