need advice?

Postby laureat » Tue Aug 09, 2016 3:53 am

I think this will be too much for someone to follow, but anyway I hope someone does

here is the thing I love football and there for I have joined an online-forum years ago but it kinda have an ugly ending but I don't want to tell to much I would I also want to bring the links if someone wants to see by oneself instead of me leading to the what was happening

here is a link:
http://www.goallegacy.net/t39681p75-the ... ro-to-zero

on this page its me: with nickname lucianomoggi I was confronting this other guy " Vlad the Impaler" and if you wonder why? that was because he used there caps-lock when he wrote the name of a player HERNANES in a sense of trolling me because I use caps-lock and because of that i felt provoked and so I started to confront him

and there is this other guy why puts an indian singer- there which I believe is some kind of racist assault on me, even though I am no indian I don't understand the point and they have also posted pictures before of a guy " DJ KHALIFA "so these trolls based that I am a Muslim, and used to do music

and there you have DeviAngel the ADMIN guy that I confronted before for accusing me of things that i didn't do, telling " KEEP IT CIVILIZED " which I feel its not even a warning its a complicated troll to explain

so he corrects me for making a simple confrontation but he doesn't mind the other for the RACIST troll

here is a link where it started to heat

http://www.goallegacy.net/t39487p900-tr ... umors-news

if you go to the next pages there are commented that have been deleted there came a moderator from nowhere accused me that I have insulted the members which I never did

and so I started confrontation with a moderatior nickname kick, and that devi angel -admin
and he was warning me with a ban, for things I didn't do, I was upset about it and I called them names like dictator and I told that you guys should be a shame for warning me of doing nothing , they that I felt injustice and they took that 50% of mine as a warning

I don't know why I am posting this here
maybe I think I need advice, I also feel a little wounded
I don't really want to go back to the forum I just want to give up
but I think there may be good to share
it makes me feel awkward but I still want to share it
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Postby moondaddy1 » Tue Aug 09, 2016 1:13 pm

Would suggest you give that forum a miss, there must be others? If someone's trolling you remember it's just words on a screen just ignore.
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Postby bert_ernie » Thu Aug 11, 2016 2:23 pm

hey that sucks. yeah i would say maybe just find another forum?

the internet can be harsh i find and it's easy to spend all your time arguing with people on the internet. sometimes it's like getting worked up over stuff that in the end is so silly and not really applicable to what's going in on your real life or like enjoying life or making your life better. i fall into that trap all the time. like in that other thread :)

i hope sharing helped you.
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Postby laureat » Tue Aug 16, 2016 1:48 am

thnx guys
just to add that i did not really shared anything before, even though i made questions but from this experience i would say it really helps to read positive feedback, encouragement and it changed how i felt about the story

about the forum i have reduced my posts, yeah i think its best for me to give up on that forum , i just didnt really like to run away from but i agree its not worth it,
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Postby Kev Yfe Ntbu » Tue Aug 16, 2016 6:47 am

Hey, I just wanted you to know that...

We feel exactly what we feel because of us. We giving meanings to things in our minds. ANY circumstance can be interpreted positively or negatively. If you gradually rewire your brain by consciously transforming a negatively interpreted circumstance into a positive one, your entire reality changes. Trust me on that.
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