I think I am a fool

Postby Andyj0216 » Mon Jan 18, 2016 9:37 am

:evil: I think I am a fool,now I am a freshman, I lost touch with my friend(a girl) on purpose.honestly speaking,I like her,since my first year in highschool.In the past,I thought she was as normal as Miss nobody.
So I was quite flipped.However,I didn't tell her I like her until we graduated from highschool. I expressed four months ago. Well,day by day, I start to know she is from a rich family.well,I am not. Later,I stopped chatting with her.I deleted her phone number,twitter account.
Now,I am so upset,I don't wanna lose her,I don't know if she still remember me.
What should I do??
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Postby Richard@DecisionSkills » Mon Jan 18, 2016 8:02 pm

You are not ready to be in a relationship.

What you should do is take the next year to focus on building up your self-confidence. Forget about relationships and work on your personal development.
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Postby Andyj0216 » Tue Jan 19, 2016 6:00 am

well,I just can't get over it.
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Postby Richard@DecisionSkills » Tue Jan 19, 2016 11:35 am

If you have already made up your mind "you can't" then there is really no reason to post your question, right?

The truth is you can and will get over it when you focus on yourself and focus on becoming a mature person.

Get involved in activities, volunteer, read, do things that focus your mind on you. The more active your mind, the less time you have to dwell and be insecure.
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Postby Andyj0216 » Tue Jan 19, 2016 11:49 am

I see.I am going to study Spanish on my own.Thank you.
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Postby Richard@DecisionSkills » Tue Jan 19, 2016 12:11 pm

Bueno. Aprender otro idioma es una buena manera de mantenerse ocupado y convertirse en una persona más madura.
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Postby Bubblez » Thu Jan 28, 2016 2:16 pm

You can go tell her straight in the everything that's on your mind with an absolute honesty. Obviously that there are no balls for that, but if there would be some, then when you would be old you would remember about this gesture proudly, with a gentle grin, releasing some free serotonin :)
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Postby PalmaNova » Fri Jan 29, 2016 1:39 pm

Tell her everything. If she is from reach family is not some obstacle, this is just your problem not hers. Be honest with her this is the best solution. Fingers crossed.
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Postby Bubblez » Fri Jan 29, 2016 2:32 pm

PalmaNova wrote:Tell her everything. If she is from reach family is not some obstacle, this is just your problem not hers. Be honest with her this is the best solution. Fingers crossed.


True. And on top of that, if it doesn't work then you keep walking with your life. But if it does, you're gonna be a rich bastard :lol:
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Postby Andyj0216 » Mon Feb 01, 2016 2:58 am

I don't think I will do that.
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Postby PalmaNova » Tue Feb 02, 2016 7:23 pm

Andyj0216 wrote:I don't think I will do that.


You won't do what ???
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Postby hubertkoh » Tue Mar 01, 2016 7:38 am

What is meant to be, will be.

Cheers up.
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Postby bennieMek » Thu Apr 25, 2019 5:32 pm

Does anyone know where I can get a hold of this CD. The usual outlets do not appear to have it.

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