by Armstrong » Sun Oct 28, 2018 1:10 pm
shame is a powerful feeling. We don't want you to say words and not follow through. Make your shame work for you and quit doing it. However, its totally OK if you do it once a week, if i understand you. It won't hurt you like Candid said. But doing what you like much hurts you, even if it is attracting.
We have a quote in Arabic: Everything that goes beyond your limits turns against you.
It is not a command to do or don't. You have to do both, do and don't. You have to alternate. You can't chose just one. Its beautiful. Theres a hadith saying: Allah is beautiful and loves beaty. Another: Shame is of two kinds, shame of idiocy and shame of wisdom