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#45

Postby desperate788 » Wed Nov 14, 2018 6:41 am

I asked thinking someone with super abilities may sense what happened it was directed to everyone..I haven't heard the call that's why I didn't answer.
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Postby desperate788 » Sat Nov 17, 2018 7:05 pm

this time my worry not work related..on the way home there was a police checkpoint as far as ı noticed they didnt try to stop me ı went on now ı worry ıf ı made a mistake couldnt notice a stop sign.
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Postby Candid » Sun Nov 18, 2018 2:58 pm

They let you through. You're in the clear.

My rule is, don't worry about it unless it actually happens.
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Postby desperate788 » Sun Nov 18, 2018 3:01 pm

I always find something to worry about. I'm like a worry dart.
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Postby desperate788 » Sun Nov 18, 2018 3:02 pm

Worry fart
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Postby desperate788 » Sun Nov 18, 2018 3:03 pm

It's exhausting..sucks life energy.
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Postby Candid » Sun Nov 18, 2018 3:15 pm

Mmm. Must be very difficult.
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Postby desperate788 » Sun Nov 18, 2018 3:28 pm

Yes. Life becomes hell. Worries on your mind everytime can't enjoy life. I shouldnt worry about this should I?
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Postby Candid » Sun Nov 18, 2018 3:37 pm

If it were simply a question of should you or shouldn't you, I'm sure you would choose not to worry about every.little.thing that enters your head. It's not that easy, apparently.
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Postby desperate788 » Sun Nov 18, 2018 3:48 pm

yes surely ı don't want to worry.. I want to enjoy life but my mind is impaired cant think like healthy people thats why ı asked a normal persons opinion like you..
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Postby Candid » Sun Nov 18, 2018 3:50 pm

Why, thank you!

My therapist calls me neurotypical, as opposed to my husband who is on the autistic spectrum. She said it was very hard for a neurotypical to live with someone who has aspergers.

Damn right. I deserve a medal -- but it's nice someone's noticed. Hahaha.
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Postby desperate788 » Sun Nov 18, 2018 3:54 pm

You are a great person anyways. I know you have some problems with your husband hope you find a fix :)
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Postby Candid » Sun Nov 18, 2018 4:14 pm

That means a lot, especially coming from you.

I think you're terrific.

Are you aware of our on-again off-again member Jason? He's unhappy, and a lot of us have tried to help him, but he often gets nasty... tells people to kill themselves, stuff like that. I've never seen you get nasty with anyone, no matter how bad you're feeling.

I feel bad for Jason. He just got banned again.
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Postby desperate788 » Sun Nov 18, 2018 4:28 pm

I know jason ofcourse. Personally ı don't have any problem with him but if general audience isnt well with him then so be it. As a part of helping strategy ı should try to help him :wink:
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Postby Candid » Sun Nov 18, 2018 4:34 pm

I think that's a good idea, not just Jason but anyone you notice needs a hand. It's what Richard was talking about earlier this week: posting about good things you've done. You could start a thread about that...
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