desperate788 wrote:Doctors I saw earlier all told me so..I don't need to worry about low libido if I don't have a partner I just couldn't make them understand if libido doesn't push one wouldn't care to have a partner..cart before horse?
Or maybe the doctors just can’t make you understand, the same as I can’t make you understand.
You can do things in life even if you don’t feel like it. You realize that don’t you? You’re not a dog. You’re not a cat. You have the ability to think and decide to pursue a relationship based on more than your testosterone driven, biological desires.
Have you ever hydrated yourself, drinking more water than you are thirsty for in a given moment? People do that all the time before they go for a long run. Why? How is it possible? They are not thirsty. But, they are also not lacking in basic common sense. They can override their lack of thirst and hydrate themselves. Just like they can choose to override their lack of thirst, you can choose to override your lack of libido.