by Candid » Tue Apr 16, 2019 6:20 am
Desperate, it's really frustrating interacting with you here. You present one problem after another, and three of us have put a lot of time and effort into talking to you, but the result is always the same: you say you "can't" take any action whatsoever to improve your life.
It may give you some temporary relief to keep complaining, but there's zero satisfaction in reading endless gripes about which you clearly intend to do nothing. The "chats" here are a one-way street, you moaning about every little detail of your life and us wanting to help you. But no one can help a man who won't help himself.
I was shocked recently when I saw you'd written something along the lines of you have the worst problems of anyone in the world, no one else has got it as bad as you have and it's all because of the way your father treated you. You have a bed to sleep in, food to eat, internet, music, a job where apparently you can never be fired, a car to get yourself around... and still you play your sad violin about how terrible it is to be you.
Wake up! You may feel like a child, and behave like one, but you are not a child and you need to start taking responsibility for your experience of life. If you hate the job, look for another one. If you miss your mother, get yourself into a position where you can spend more time with her. Just don't keep moaning here if you have no intention of doing anything about it.