I'm fed up with life

Postby desperate788 » Fri Jan 17, 2020 5:46 pm

I don't want anything from life none of my wishes realised for the last two decades I don't hope anymore and I don't want anything except the suffering at work ends its pointless even writing these bores me I just want to chill at home please help please
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Postby desperate788 » Fri Jan 17, 2020 6:03 pm

I'm an already lost guy with a f... Ed brain.. It doesn't matter if I have a ajob please save me
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Postby Richard@DecisionSkills » Sat Jan 18, 2020 1:08 am

desperate788 wrote:I will not complain anymore
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Postby quietvoice » Sat Jan 18, 2020 4:07 am

Richard@DecisionSkills wrote:
desperate788 wrote:I will not complain anymore



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Postby Candid » Sat Jan 18, 2020 9:59 am

desperate788 wrote:none of my wishes realised for the last two decades


What a whopper!

When you wanted to eat, you had food.
When you wanted to pee or get clean, you had a bathroom.
When you were tired, you had a bed.
When it was New Year, you went to your mother's home to enjoy wine and company.
When you needed money, your pay came through.
When you wanted a holiday or a day out, off you went.

All of your wishes have been granted, all your life.... except those that contradicted the wishes of another person, eg. when g married someone else. Would you expect any intelligent woman to want to live with someone who does nothing but complain? Just one hour listening to you would be exhausting. It would make any sane person want to get right away from you.

I will not complain anymore


Another lie.

I just want to chill at home


Off you go, then. Go home. It's always up to you. The tax office isn't paying you to sit online moaning all day.

please help please


Pathetic. Seriously, what do you think anyone can do to help you? Help yourself!
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Postby desperate788 » Sat Jan 18, 2020 10:28 am

I couldn't go abroad I couldn't enjoy music I couldn't enjoy sexuality
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Postby Candid » Sat Jan 18, 2020 11:06 am

desperate788 wrote:I will not complain anymore
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Postby desperate788 » Sat Jan 18, 2020 11:15 am

That's not complaining I'm just telling the fact should I lie my life doesn't include any excitement just suffering
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Postby Candid » Sat Jan 18, 2020 11:20 am

desperate788 wrote:my life doesn't include any excitement just suffering


Whose fault is that?
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Postby desperate788 » Sat Jan 18, 2020 11:25 am

My father and sister made that they cant stand me enjoying life
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Postby desperate788 » Sat Jan 18, 2020 1:27 pm

I wish Saturday never ends but it will. The point I have to suffer at work when I don't enjoy anything
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Postby quietvoice » Sat Jan 18, 2020 1:39 pm

desperate788 wrote:I wish Saturday never ends but it will. The point I have to suffer at work when I don't enjoy anything

You freakin' enjoy your suffering. If you didn't enjoy it so much, you'd do something about it. Suffering is comfortable for you. For you to move beyond suffering, you'd have to do something uncomfortable, which is to do something different than what you've been doing for years. It's tough; the mind fights against doing something that is outside of its known universe. You'll continue this way until you've had enough. If you've not had enough, no one outside of yourself is of any help whatsoever.
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Postby desperate788 » Sat Jan 18, 2020 1:57 pm

Yes I think I enjoy this suffering subconsciously. What can I do to end it? I don't want to do any uncomfortable thing. I'm dependant on my comfort. It's a personality trait. Doing something different? Worried anxious mood prevents me to do anything I can't travel can't even drive car
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Postby quietvoice » Sat Jan 18, 2020 2:05 pm

desperate788 wrote: It's a personality trait.

Personality is not engraved in stone.
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Postby desperate788 » Sat Jan 18, 2020 2:17 pm

It's a matter of decades I can't change.
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