by SparkleFly12 » Sun Aug 02, 2020 3:16 pm
@tokeless thats true, but Im talking about something slightly different. After ejaculating with paws/low libido, your fragment of a sex drive disappears; and I no longer find anything sexual remotely interesting. Thats different than having to wait 20-40 minutes before doing it again - its a complete lack of desire to do it again for many days or weeks. My favorite porn could be playing on the tv and it wouldnt even make me look twice.
It is a mental problem and not a physical one; but I dont think its one you can conquer with willpower. its the brain not finding sex interesting anymore; no dopamine released anymore for things that would normally turn me on and interest me. If I wasnt in a reltionship I wouldnt even care about the low libido; because I just dont think about sex at all since it doesnt interest me. But it is getting better slowly; in sync with my other remaining paws symptoms improving (its one of 3 left).
@Potsmoker1 one other symptom that was pointed out int he other big ED thread, that I observed after it was pointed out to me. flaccid size seems smaller. Its weird. And on top of that the numb / responseless feeling is consatant. I didnt get morning wood for over a year, its starting to come back now.
Im at 1.5 years and starting to feel sex drive again; sex is starting to be something I look forward to instead of dread and want to get over with; as it has been the past year.