I just got the most hateful text I have ever seen. It is not a death threat but it is some pretty weird bullying from a friend who has some neurosis. I like art and the art world. My eyes are open. I know people can hate other people. I want to cultivate collaboration. I have heard of hate being on the rise lately. Now I see direct evidence of hatred, even hatred from one friend to another. This friend of mine keeps calling me an art snob. Now the pattern is showing so I think I should keep a safe distance from this friend. I can keep distance since this is some very manipulative bullying. I just need to share to help heal the wound caused to my psyche this morning. Here is the 63 word bully rant,
"well well well if it isn't the smartest art scientist in the world judging everyone about what they do to make money to survive because they have they're mom to fall back on. I feel embarrassed to invite you to a free movie in fear that you'll spit out the pop corn and say you can do better. Thanks for your booshy advice art scientist."
I know that there is a lot of hatred in the world. Why do friends have to write such weird stuff to each other? When friends can't see eye to eye where is the world going? I will take this bully rant as criticism and not judge the friend. I will keep a healthy distance so they can cool off. I will maintain a solid belief in art as a worth while field of knowledge. I am an art teacher in training. I know that people will shout out that I am a bad person and that I am a brain washer and that I am a trouble maker. That is what all teachers face. By chance my art does "suck". That does not mean I will ever turn my back on the beautiful process called music and art. Bullying has three phases/ gunny sack, release anger and honeymoon. This friend of mine may be becoming a bully. By chance he has been bullied so much in his life that he has learned their ways. I will not allow for this circle to continue. Like most people say when encountering a bully, "just walk away."