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Postby Richard@DecisionSkills » Wed Aug 02, 2017 3:22 am

No0ne wrote: You dont know me, so dont judge.


This is a big bunch of bull as well. I'll judge you all I like and equally you can judge me. There is nothing wrong with judgment, you do it every single day. There is also nothing wrong with judgement, ESPECIALLY when you go into a forum designed specifically for the purpose for people to offer up their opinions.

If all you have going on is people ruining your mood, that can happen in both the real world and the virtual world. Saying you cant disconnect and negotiate the real world sounds like an excuse. You are saying it is not?

What is the worst thing out in the real world? There must be something so much more terrible than your existence on a keyboard and getting your mood ruined.
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Postby No0ne » Wed Aug 02, 2017 1:11 pm

U know, I hate that part of me which is scared of everything. Its hard for me to handle judgment, I been judged all my life, like everyone I think, but It changed me. It was too much for me. So yeah, my life isnt bad, but I react at things too hard now. Im trying to change, trying to be strong, trying to enjoy life. There are much more terrible things in world, but I am talking about myself, and things are hard for me.
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Postby mindtester » Sat Aug 05, 2017 2:58 pm

Elevate your mind by meditating or trying some relaxation. That could help improve your mood and make you feel more at peace with your day. My girlfriend got me to do it since I have anger issues and that helped me a lot!
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Postby No0ne » Sat Aug 05, 2017 3:46 pm

Mood is still same. Trying to used to ruotine. Exercise and do something, to not think. Maybe life will be better.
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Postby Richard@DecisionSkills » Sun Aug 06, 2017 4:24 am

No0ne wrote: Trying to used to ruotine.


As long as your routine day consists of hours on a computer each day your mood will remain the same.
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Postby No0ne » Sun Aug 06, 2017 3:11 pm

Not that routine. Like waking up early, going to ride a bike,do something I like, and things like that.
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Postby No0ne » Mon Dec 23, 2019 10:30 pm

Richard@DecisionSkills wrote:
No0ne wrote: You dont know me, so dont judge.


This is a big bunch of bull as well. I'll judge you all I like and equally you can judge me. There is nothing wrong with judgment, you do it every single day. There is also nothing wrong with judgement, ESPECIALLY when you go into a forum designed specifically for the purpose for people to offer up their opinions.

If all you have going on is people ruining your mood, that can happen in both the real world and the virtual world. Saying you cant disconnect and negotiate the real world sounds like an excuse. You are saying it is not?

What is the worst thing out in the real world? There must be something so much more terrible than your existence on a keyboard and getting your mood ruined.


I came back to this post just because I was interested, what I have wrote here. But I still can't understand why u talk so harsh. I still think u shouldn't judge people, it's not my or your place to judge someone, U can have an opinion on something, but it'
s not same as judging
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Postby Richard@DecisionSkills » Tue Dec 24, 2019 4:37 am

No0ne wrote: I still think u shouldn't judge people, it's not my or your place to judge someone, U can have an opinion on something, but it'
s not same as judging


I agree that having an opinion is different than judging. That is why the words mean different things.

Now for me...I can judge all I wish. Why? Who gives me the authority to judge?

I DO.

If a man rapes an infant I don’t only have an opinion. I also have a judgment. It’s wrong. I don’t give a rats f$&@# what your opinion on the subject is. I don’t care if you do or do not have a judgment on the matter. Whatever you feel, however you wish to think that is fine with me. If you don’t want to judge a child rapist because you don’t have the conviction to declare yourself judge that is perfectly fine.

But I do. I don’t need some higher authority to judge for me. Screw that. I can judge and I damn well will do so.

Do you not have that confidence? Why or why not?

I get that some people, I’m assuming including you, believe that judgment is reserved for something beyond the scope of humanity. If that’s what you wish to believe, fine with me.

In my opinion you can judge me all you want. Like me, don’t like me. Have a negative opinion or a positive opinion. Judge me or not, I don’t care. You are welcome to it.

And guess what? I’m welcome to accept or reject your judgment, same as I’m welcome to accept or reject your opinion.

You have no authority over me same as I have no authority over you. So if you don’t like my judgment...well, tough s***t, that’s life buddy. You don’t have to accept it, but I’ll be damned if your going to tell me what I’m allowed to judge or not.

My advice...don’t put so much value in the judgments others make, including mine. Stay away from letting yourself believe that if someone passes judgment that they have some authority. Don’t necessarily dismiss what they say, because they might have a point. But if your getting all twisted and hung up over an opinion versus a judgment, then you are the one with the problem.

Seriously. There are people literally being killed because they happened to belong to a certain religion or culture and you have the luxury of being on the Internet to whine about the difference between a judgment and an opinion. Seriously?

Look, I get that same as you I’m in a luxurious position. I just think the difference is that I appreciate the luxury while your in here whining about whether a person should judge or only have an opinion. Really? You don’t have any other issues in your life to focus on?
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Postby Candid » Thu Dec 26, 2019 8:54 am

No0ne wrote:Like waking up early, going to ride a bike,do something I like, and things like that.


This is a good post, No0ne. See? I judged your post (but not you) and I can see you know the way to go. Maybe you lack the motivation to carry it out on a regular basis, but you do know.

No one can help you here except by supporting your best ideas and discouraging unproductive behaviours. Maybe you can learn to do that yourself. Maybe every day when you wake up you can think What would make me happy today? and do it, then ask yourself What else will make me happy today? and just keep doing that.

Sometimes you'll need to do things that challenge you or for whatever reason don't feel so good. Remind yourself that these things need to be done, and that afterwards you'll feel better.

Just. keep. aiming. to feel good and then better. You have the capacity to do this, We all do.
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Postby No0ne » Sat Dec 28, 2019 7:34 pm

I'm much better, thanks for trying to help me tho. I feel happy in my life, I solved problems I had and I'm seeking even bigger things in life. :)
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Postby Richard@DecisionSkills » Sat Dec 28, 2019 8:09 pm

No0ne wrote:...I'm seeking even bigger things in life. :)


Awesome.
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Postby hojoos » Tue Mar 24, 2020 1:55 pm

Yup, that was my day, But I was wrong. Its really bad. My mind its too f***ed and depressed, I cant control my emotions, Im angry, very angry, and sad. Yup. Crying again. Very happy life. Like why I am still living..
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