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#555

Postby Candid » Tue Dec 11, 2018 2:42 pm

Me too.
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#556

Postby desperate788 » Tue Dec 11, 2018 2:58 pm

Thank you very much :)
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#557

Postby desperate788 » Wed Dec 12, 2018 4:31 pm

This night will end like others and tomorrow I will go to work again :(
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#558

Postby desperate788 » Wed Dec 12, 2018 5:19 pm

Lonely guy at winter night..There is no one to talk to..
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Postby Candid » Thu Dec 13, 2018 7:50 am

Not while you're at home, no. There are dozens of people to talk to whenever you go to the shopping centre, but when they're around you you're usually too shy to say hello.

It isn't all about you, dear one. The majority of other people have their own problems. You can be the one who offers a smile, a hello, or any small gesture of friendliness and willingness to help. Get out of your own head and notice that other people are suffering, too.

It makes a world of difference when you shift from "I have so many problems" to "I can be helpful to other people".
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Postby desperate788 » Thu Dec 13, 2018 7:59 am

My suffering should be more serious. I'm in no position to help people I need help. I would like to shift in a positive mood but I just can't worries don't let.
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Postby Candid » Thu Dec 13, 2018 8:35 am

desperate788 wrote:I need help.


Okay. In that case, what are you doing to get help? Are you with a therapist since you stopped seeing the first one?

Richard is right that being on the forum prevents you taking action to fix your problem, whatever it is. You were going to have "a few days" away from the forum but according to my date/time thingy you had only one.

Don't get me wrong. You have friends here, and I can understand your need to 'talk' to us when you're feeling so isolated. But being here can't fix anything. With the best will in the world, quietvoice, Richard and I can't do anything at all to help you.

If things are so bad for you that you can't do anything for anyone else, you need to find real-world help. You need to make it a priority.
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Postby desperate788 » Thu Dec 13, 2018 8:41 am

I don't agree..forum can help and is helping. It's presence is enough..such an emotional support. I wouldn't stand this he'll for a week without forum. I may go to a therapist. .do you know any?
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Postby desperate788 » Thu Dec 13, 2018 8:51 am

What about a Skype session with the old one..even moving is becoming a struggle
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Postby desperate788 » Thu Dec 13, 2018 8:59 am

I'm seriously deteriorating..
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Postby desperate788 » Thu Dec 13, 2018 9:01 am

Should I close forum?
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#566

Postby Candid » Thu Dec 13, 2018 9:26 am

Start taking steps towards that fantasy of living in Istanbul. It doesn't have to remain a fantasy.
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Postby desperate788 » Thu Dec 13, 2018 9:46 am

Even going to home from work is a struggle
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Postby desperate788 » Thu Dec 13, 2018 10:34 am

So I'm alone again with my worries.
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Postby desperate788 » Thu Dec 13, 2018 11:10 am

Heaven save me from this hell
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