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#570

Postby Candid » Thu Dec 13, 2018 11:23 am

Yep. But if you shake off your negativity just long enough to get to Istanbul, you won't need to be alone any more.
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Postby desperate788 » Thu Dec 13, 2018 11:29 am

It's a very important decision to quit job I'm not in a condition to make that decision. All I know is its hell here.
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Postby Candid » Thu Dec 13, 2018 11:33 am

So that's your decision: it's too hard to move out of hell. Staying in hell is easier.
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Postby desperate788 » Thu Dec 13, 2018 11:35 am

Doing nothing eguals staying in hell
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#574

Postby desperate788 » Thu Dec 13, 2018 11:36 am

That's what I do.
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#575

Postby desperate788 » Thu Dec 13, 2018 11:43 am

I will sleep tonight and when I wake up I find myself in a beach sea ahead trees a sunny summer day gulls singing gentle sounds of waves that's my dream.
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#576

Postby Candid » Thu Dec 13, 2018 11:46 am

Okay. Looks like we've reached the end of this discussion. You'd rather stay in hell -- worsening hell -- than make the effort it would take to get out.

I'll remind you of this conversation five years from now, when you're working for the tax office in some place that isn't Istanbul and feeling worse than you do now.

No doubt you had more energy and more options five years ago, but you can't go back in time. NOW is the only time you can act to make your life better... or sit back and watch it get worse.
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Postby desperate788 » Thu Dec 13, 2018 11:51 am

I'm sorry I can't do anything this hell will go on.
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#578

Postby Candid » Thu Dec 13, 2018 12:00 pm

How does this work with

Yes I want that


on our other thread?
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Postby desperate788 » Thu Dec 13, 2018 12:01 pm

I want that but can't do that.
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Postby Candid » Thu Dec 13, 2018 12:09 pm

Do you realise you have to make a decision? The decision to do nothing is still a decision.

doing nothing = failing

doing anything, in your situation = a major achievement

doing something that feels better is the way to success and happiness
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Postby desperate788 » Thu Dec 13, 2018 12:12 pm

The problem is I can't do anything I'm stuck in anxiety and worry
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Postby Candid » Thu Dec 13, 2018 12:14 pm

That must be horrible.
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Postby desperate788 » Thu Dec 13, 2018 12:15 pm

Yes right word..horrible. exactly..such anxiety.
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#584

Postby quietvoice » Thu Dec 13, 2018 1:13 pm

desperate788 wrote:Heaven save me from this hell

Heaven
and
Hell
are both
WITHIN
you.
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