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Postby desperate788 » Fri Mar 16, 2018 5:25 pm

I was unlucky my life could be much better but it wasn't it isn't. I'm losing the will to go on this struggle. Things I want to do seems less important..just a roof over head and bread..my life means just that..No joy no art no activity nothing..
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Postby desperate788 » Fri Mar 16, 2018 5:29 pm

I would like to chat on thread candid
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Postby desperate788 » Fri Mar 16, 2018 5:31 pm

I know I'm saying the same things for years my disease is very deep can't recover easily
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Postby Candid » Fri Mar 16, 2018 5:38 pm

desperate788 wrote:No joy no art no activity nothing..


Who can give these things to you? If you want joy you pursue what makes you happy. If you want art you visit art galleries, buy art books, or get the materials you need to create. If you want activity you get out and do stuff.

You know this already. No one can give you these things.
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Postby desperate788 » Fri Mar 16, 2018 5:48 pm

I used to want to do them they don't matter anymore
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Postby Candid » Fri Mar 16, 2018 5:54 pm

You have a choice to make things matter or just fade away.
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Postby desperate788 » Fri Mar 16, 2018 5:59 pm

Yes they fade away maybe because of my age maybe because of very many disappointmens they fade away
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Postby desperate788 » Sun Mar 18, 2018 9:46 am

I think it's warm out..What about a walk?
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Postby Candid » Sun Mar 18, 2018 2:16 pm

I'll be heading out about two hours from now. Might be a bit late for you.
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Postby desperate788 » Sun Mar 18, 2018 2:18 pm

It was a misunderstanding I'm better at home sleeping with lethargy, tomorrow work unfortunately. .
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Postby desperate788 » Fri Apr 06, 2018 4:00 pm

What's up? I'm happy because it's Friday but not very happy life seems meaningless all our struggles why do we fight on? For what I see all meaningless except struggle for roof on top and food I don't know it's just meaningless and emptiness .
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Postby Candid » Sat Apr 07, 2018 7:53 am

It's the pursuit of pleasure -- whatever you enjoy -- and the avoidance of pain.

I presume Friday feels good to you because you have a weekend away from work. That's the avoidance of pain.

What is the pleasure in life, for you?

For me it's time spent with people whose company I enjoy. That was the best part of my working life and remains the best thing about retirement.

What does pleasure mean to you?
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Postby desperate788 » Sat Apr 07, 2018 8:15 am

It's doubtful if I really enjoy bit I think surfing net going to a movie having a meal out lurking around in a shopping center listening washing machine sounds holiday and relaxation at a sea town are some things I would enjoy unfortunately I can't do them they cause reverse effects
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Postby Candid » Sat Apr 07, 2018 8:53 am

Wherever we go we take ourselves with us. Do you like and approve of yourself?
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Postby desperate788 » Sat Apr 07, 2018 9:56 am

I don't know I think I don't like myself I'm a depressive anxious moron worrying 7/24
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