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#780

Postby Candid » Tue Feb 05, 2019 7:30 am

Do you think something you've done has made you desperate?

Only your thinking is working against you. Change your thoughts, change your life.

None of this is your fault, desperate, but you've been given the antidote many times.
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Postby desperate788 » Tue Feb 05, 2019 8:12 am

Something someone done made me desperate I think there weren't an outside factor I wouldn't be so miserable. What do you mean by change your thoughts? Can you give an example? Actually I'm too exhausted and unmotivated even to do that. But I may try.
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Postby Candid » Tue Feb 05, 2019 9:14 am

Here's an example:

No one else has the power to control my thinking [FACT]. I alone have the energy and motivation to change my thinking. (FACT] I know it takes much more energy to think miserable thoughts than it does to think happy ones [FACT], and all the motivation I need comes from my desire for a better life [UP TO YOU]. Not only will I try; I will succeed. I will think about what's good in my life: the money I have to feed, clothe, shelter and entertain myself. The people who care about me. The limitless possibilities I can see. I am changing my thinking right now. No one else makes decisions for me. I know what I want and how to get it. I choose every thought I think and every belief I hold. I now choose to see myself happy and self-directed. I have created my present circumstances with my thinking. If I want to, I can change any aspect of my life. I am the only thinker in my head and the only power in my life. Never again will I use this power against myself.
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Postby desperate788 » Tue Feb 05, 2019 9:21 am

I read it and repeat it. So?
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Postby Candid » Tue Feb 05, 2019 9:23 am

You need to believe it, not challenge me to prove it to you.
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Postby desperate788 » Tue Feb 05, 2019 9:59 am

I can't believe it
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Postby Candid » Tue Feb 05, 2019 10:33 am

Candid wrote:None of this is your fault, desperate, but you've been given the antidote many times.


Okay, now it is your fault.

Unless and until you take responsibility for yourself, you'll remain stuck.
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Postby desperate788 » Tue Feb 05, 2019 10:41 am

How not believing is a fault I would like to believe it but there are facts I'm in a terrible situation mentally
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Postby Candid » Tue Feb 05, 2019 10:42 am

I'll leave you to it, then. Enjoy!
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Postby desperate788 » Tue Feb 05, 2019 10:43 am

I'm late for work everyday can't work when I'm at office depressed anxious worried crying all day unfortunately these are the facts all I think is going home and sleeping even at noon
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Postby Candid » Tue Feb 05, 2019 10:54 am

Great! Aren't you glad you have a bed?
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#791

Postby desperate788 » Tue Feb 05, 2019 10:59 am

Yes I'm glad to have somewhere to rest though it should be better..I don't like my house.
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Postby Candid » Tue Feb 05, 2019 12:36 pm

desperate788 wrote:Yes I'm glad to have somewhere to rest


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Postby desperate788 » Tue Feb 05, 2019 3:47 pm

Can't stand this suffering we may consider painless suicide option
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#794

Postby desperate788 » Tue Feb 05, 2019 4:46 pm

Evet hung related to my life and worries go bad.
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