I don't feel what I should feel about my girlfriend

Postby ArmiX » Sat Jan 13, 2018 2:41 am

I've been dating this girl for 2 mounths now(we got into a realationship 1 mounth ago) and I dont get the feelings that I've had with the previous girls.I still want to see her every day,I still want to spend the nights together,I still want to kiss with her but that strong passion is nowhere.I thought that it might be the fact that I have suffered a lot after the break up with my ex 6 mounths ago.I really like this girl,she is really smart,beautiful,we are on the same page and she loves me unconditionally(the first one who does this).Every day I'm upset and just blaming myself that i do get that strong passion for the wrong type of girls but not for the right one.If anybody has any kind of advice or knowledge on this topic please feel free to help.Thank you.
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Postby q3ada4 » Sun Jan 14, 2018 2:47 am

Strong passion is just lust, my friend, and lust always fades in the long term. Do you think that couples who spend their lives together are in a perpetual state of lust? They aren't. They've developed something more important: trust, mutual respect, and loving kindness towards each other. It sounds like you are attracted to this girl, enjoy spending time with her, etc., but are simply just not driven wild with lust for her. You have a "problem" that many people would envy. You've got someone who "loves you unconditionally"--which, after 2 months, I would say that there's a good chance that this statement hasn't been put to any real test, but nevertheless it's a good thing that you feel this way--and you've got a person you can share experiences and emotions with, companionship. Most people don't even have that. Thank your lucky stars and stick with her.
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Postby Kasper » Wed May 30, 2018 9:57 am

DAMN WELL SAID q3ada4. as long as that pussy right you feel me? lmao I did not even love my Ex when we got serious. By the end I had a burning hatred for her. that kind of hate only comes from real love. It was too much tho. Im wounded like AF. best luck to ya
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Postby silence81 » Wed Jun 13, 2018 2:02 pm

ArmiX wrote:I've been dating this girl for 2 mounths now(we got into a realationship 1 mounth ago) and I dont get the feelings that I've had with the previous girls.I still want to see her every day,I still want to spend the nights together,I still want to kiss with her but that strong passion is nowhere.I thought that it might be the fact that I have suffered a lot after the break up with my ex 6 mounths ago.I really like this girl,she is really smart,beautiful,we are on the same page and she loves me unconditionally(the first one who does this).Every day I'm upset and just blaming myself that i do get that strong passion for the wrong type of girls but not for the right one.If anybody has any kind of advice or knowledge on this topic please feel free to help.Thank you.


Hi ArmiX.

I'm not sure what you mean by "strong passion." What do you mean by "strong passion"? Can you locate it anywhere in your body? What's it like for you to feel or have "strong passion" for someone?

Also, what do you mean by "the wrong type of girls"? What are these girls typically like and what is it about them that you like and dislike?
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