My girlfriend feels empty inside

Postby Freeckycake » Mon Jan 22, 2018 5:01 pm

Greetings everyone ! :D I'm a new member here and hope someone will give me any suggestion I'll appreciate it with a big heart.
The problem started when my girlfriend lost her beloved grandmother it was so sad for her and to this day she is still suffering because of that she keeps blaming herself because of that. :(
Before this happened my gf was happy even if she did sometimes encounter some bad events, she wasn't weak like that and so wanting just to disappear forever and never get out of the bed also, she feels alone, to be honest, I really did sometimes hurt her feelings a lot because I was depressed as well and I pushed away the people i care the most for anyway its not about me this time, its about my gf the most gifted girl I ever had she is a forgiving, interesting, cute girl and it makes me feel useless that I cannot help her we are in a long distance relationship for 3 years now thankfully. if I was beside her I can do anything to erase the black shadow on her heart, but all I have right now is words.
Please If anyone has any suggestion I will be so glad to hear from all of you.
Freecky :)
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Postby InkChalk » Tue Jan 23, 2018 5:53 pm

Book a ticket and get your donkey over to her. Cuddle her, maker her feel loved. Borrow money, walk, call in sick, do whatever it takes, and live a hilarious story about how you made it over to wherever she is.

Ask yourself: What would you want her to do, if you were in her position.

You obviously feel bad for pushing her away.
Lead by example.
And do the right thing, and be who you want to be, and help her to the full extent.
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Postby Freeckycake » Tue Jan 23, 2018 10:50 pm

Hi Thanks for replying
This is what I'm actually trying to do but it will take the time we live in different countries like for me I'm living in a little poor country (don't worry it is not Somalia haha ) and so it will take a little time to do that.
But thanks for replying really appreciate it :) :D
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