Should I marry any girl?

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Postby Hamming » Tue May 15, 2018 6:36 pm

Richard@DecisionSkills wrote:
Hamming wrote:But then I will not be cool, and will be gay in their eyes. I want to be cool.


Oh, well then you definitely should get married as that proves to others you are cool and not gay :roll: :roll: :roll:

And don’t worry that over 50% of marriages end in divorce and many people in marriages are miserable...because that must be cool too.

Now, in order to find a suitable wife you need to find a woman that also just wants to marry so as to look cool and doesn’t want to be accused of being a lesbian or a spinster. And make sure she wants to have children to look cool, because all the other women are having babies. That is a great question you can ask, to see if she is jealous of other women that have children. If she is not jealous of other women, don’t date her.


sounds good :)

but seriously I am afraid of something being too late. What if I later want to have children and I am too old and regret that I did not marry any girl? I could have child but if I am starting a child at 35+ years old, then there is a risk that he will have down syndrome. One guy said there is also chance that child will be genius, but I heard first time it.

One friend told me she knows a man who made his child being 60 years old with 35 year old woman and child is healthy. So there is a chance.
Of course I need to be cool by the 60 with lot of cash to get 35 year old woman, but thats different story.
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Postby Richard@DecisionSkills » Tue May 15, 2018 6:37 pm

How old are you now?
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Postby Hamming » Tue May 15, 2018 7:09 pm

Richard@DecisionSkills wrote:How old are you now?


30
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Postby Richard@DecisionSkills » Tue May 15, 2018 7:15 pm

Then you have minimum 5 years if not 10 years. But, don’t wait. The first girl that thinks marriage is important to be considered cool you should agree to marry. That way you are both of the same purpose in life.
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Postby Candid » Wed May 16, 2018 12:52 pm

Hamming wrote: What if I later want to have children and I am too old and regret that I did not marry any girl? I could have child but if I am starting a child at 35+ years old, then there is a risk that he will have down syndrome.


You have been misinformed. When women have a first child later in life there is indeed an increased risk of Down Syndrome. This doesn't apply to men, who can (and do) father healthy children up to and including in their 90s.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ramjit_Raghav
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Postby Hamming » Wed May 16, 2018 4:21 pm

Candid wrote:
Hamming wrote: What if I later want to have children and I am too old and regret that I did not marry any girl? I could have child but if I am starting a child at 35+ years old, then there is a risk that he will have down syndrome.


You have been misinformed. When women have a first child later in life there is indeed an increased risk of Down Syndrome. This doesn't apply to men, who can (and do) father healthy children up to and including in their 90s.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ramjit_Raghav



thats good news.
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