Child sexual experimentation

Postby Anonymous02 » Sat Apr 14, 2018 10:46 am

I have recently remembered something I did as a child, when I was about 11/ 12, I remembered this a few months ago but I’ve remembered a few more things from what had happened, I was about 12 and I had a cousin about 5 and I remember only once when I was in a room with just him and me, he came next to me and I think I pulled him a little closer to me I then wanted to try out something, a little bit of domination I think.... I pushed him on the bed and started to dry hump him, his clothes where on and so where mine, he didn’t seem fazed by it and I stopped pretty quickly, now I’m 16 and I feel disgusted by what I done, I wasn’t trying to hurt him and I would never do that now, I feel so bad and didn’t really know what I was doing, I had watched porn at a young age as a friend of mine showed me in year 7 and I remember I had seen it before hand, I also walked in on my parents a few times before. I feel so terrible for what I have done and I would never do something like this again. I’m sitting here thinking to myself, did I sexual abuse my own cousin? And it’s horrible to think that I might of done, what would police think of this? I done this once and would never do his again. Please someone help.
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Postby Anonymous02 » Sat Apr 14, 2018 10:57 am

I also read online that this is sexual abuse, I added slight force and it said that force is sexual abuse, and the age gap meant that is was child-on-child sexual abuse and I immediately panicked and started to feel sick to my stomach. But as I said I wasn’t trying to hurt anyone and I didn’t really know the consequences on my actions, have I done something wrong? Please someone reply? I’m not looking so sympathy I just wanted to open up and hopefully get feedback.
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Postby Candid » Sat Apr 14, 2018 11:09 am

You may have to wait for some time, so have a look at these:
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Postby Candid » Sat Apr 14, 2018 11:09 am

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Postby Candid » Sat Apr 14, 2018 11:09 am

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Postby Anonymous02 » Sat Apr 14, 2018 5:14 pm

Thank you candid, may I ask what you think about this? Honestly?
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Postby Candid » Sun Apr 15, 2018 8:01 am

As all those threads will tell you, what you did when you were a child has no relevance to who you are today. When we know better, we do better.

Most of us can look back to our childhoods and think of things we're ashamed of now. It isn't fair for the adult we are to blame the child we were. At that age you didn't know what you were doing, other than following your physical inclination. Morality comes later.

So let yourself off the hook, put it out of your mind, and be the best person you can be from today forwards.
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Postby Anonymous02 » Sun Apr 15, 2018 8:06 pm

Wow thank you for this, this helped a lot
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Postby Anonymous02 » Sun Apr 15, 2018 8:07 pm

I was doing a bit of research aswell and all my symptoms link to OCD, which I need to get checked
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Postby Anonymous02 » Wed Apr 18, 2018 3:00 pm

May I ask you one question please?
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Postby Anonymous02 » Wed Apr 18, 2018 3:08 pm

What would police or the law say about this particular situation? Does my parents need to know? Does my auntie need to know? What if my cousin remembers this and thinks I done something bad? I’m sorry that I’m asking theses questions but I just can’t seem to forgive myself and I feel like people around me will think it’s wrong because Of the age gap and all the rest of it. I hope someone can answer this. Thank you.
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Postby Candid » Wed Apr 18, 2018 5:10 pm

No one needs to know. If you feel the need to tell, see a therapist.
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Postby Anonymous02 » Wed Apr 18, 2018 5:39 pm

Okay thank you, so law wise... I won’t get into trouble? Could I get into trouble IF they’re as to know?
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Postby Anonymous02 » Wed Apr 18, 2018 5:42 pm

So there is no way I could get into trouble with police or the law IF they was to know?
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Postby Richard@DecisionSkills » Wed Apr 18, 2018 6:07 pm

Anonymous02 wrote:So there is no way I could get into trouble with police or the law IF they was to know?


No. You can’t get in legal trouble.

Why do you fear failure? I mean, you must be so afraid of not being able to achieve any goal in life that you distract yourself with an irrelevant past.

What are your career goals? How do you spend your typical day? What time to you get up and when do you go to sleep? What groups are you engaged with? What books are you reading?
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