One girl is angry at me for no reason

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Postby Hamming » Sun Jun 17, 2018 3:28 pm

Having yourself as your only friend certainly does not preclude you being social, getting out talking to other people once in a while.


Getting to talk once in a while might be too little to improve. My one of best friends says I should go talk to people and be in social situations as much as possible to get better.

Why do you need to get better? Better at what? What exactly do you think is wrong with you?


I need to get better so that I would not feel bad being between people, talking to people, and to be respected. I hate that I am getting stressed in social situations.

After all, when you don't like who you are, you think people are right to be angry with you for no reason.

Did I say that people are right to be angry for no reason? I think they do not have right be angry at me for this.

Give me a list of 10 people you admire, and tell me what you like about them. Guaranteed you have those qualities yourself.


It is hard to think of 10 suddenly. Or I admire them fully until I see their bad sides. For example:
there is one waiter where I go to eat often - she looks so cute, her body is perfect.

Another is my boss. She does not look like one who is a burden for a man. She is smart and probably earns good money. She is good looking also - good body and face. She talks super nicely to us. She even apologizes when I do not see her fault, for example when she did not answer for long time in the chat because she had a phone call. She is a boss, and we have to understand that she has the right to have phone calls, so why she should apologize. But her talk makes her so nice. She is 10/10 woman. But on the other hand - I do not know her very closely. Maybe she likes to sleep with other man which I would not like at all if she was my.

Another is Donald Trump - I do not like everything about him. But one thing I like is his success, how he makes such a good money. And also I like how he says what he thinks about something, like "We will destroy North Korea if that will be needed " or smth like that. He does not give a **** if somebody does not like what he says. That is interesting because - how he as being so know is not afraid to be killed for his such talks. There are lot of people who do not like him.

Or there is another local guy - who again made lot of money and bought lamborhini. I think I would have hard time in talking to him. But I like how he shows to other people that it is possible to make money instead of complaining how hard is to live. He makes big smile in his photos with his lamborghini and there are lot of people who do not like him. But he does not give a **** :) I know one guy who says - what a business man - he does not even know how to make a normal sentence on television. I think many people do not like him showing his lamborhini. PLus how he annoyis other people is - by driving 200+ km/hour where limit is 130 and making facebook live stream. And then saying - prove it that it was me :D and police proably cannot give a penalty.

Another is probably my father. He is often annoyign. But he made lot of money during his life, especially last 10 years when ecoonmy got much better. It is good to have a father who knows how to make money instead of some regular who just knows how to drink vodka. And he should be able to live much better live when he retires than regular people. PRobably he will stop working only when there will be no health, because he is hardworker. He deserves this money.

My sister - again she is annoying when I want to talk anything and not give a **** what I talk. But on the other hand - she is also a woman who is not a burden for man. She does not earn super big amount, but comparing to average woman in our country she earns above average probably. And has bigger plans instead of asking money from man.

Another man is George Soros. He again is not a slave to somebody else. I like this: "He is known as "The Man Who Broke the Bank of England" because of his short sale of US$10 billion worth of Pound sterling, making him a profit of $1 billion during the 1992 Black Wednesday UK currency crisis."
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/George_Soros

that is super cool to break the bank :)

another is Aaron Fifield - https://chatwithtraders.com/about-aaron-fifield/ I do not know much about him, but I like what he has done - he has done lot of interviews with over hundred of other trades who I admire.

So practically I can add to this list almost all those successful traders.
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Postby quietvoice » Sun Jun 17, 2018 4:29 pm

Hamming wrote:Getting to talk once in a while might be too little to improve. My one of best friends says I should go talk to people and be in social situations as much as possible to get better.

Taking baby steps, or going all out, . . . however it works for you sounds like a Good Plan.
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Postby Toby » Tue Jun 19, 2018 4:42 am

Perhaps going for a walk with her and when she is in a good mood try to explain to her what you are doing during a game is only a game and it doesn't reflect anything bad from you towards her.
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Postby Toby » Tue Jun 19, 2018 4:46 am

Richard@DecisionSkills wrote:Attack her...

Don’t be a wuss, be a man and attack, attack, attack. You will gain her respect and she will think you are cool. Sure, she might be angry at first, but when you show strength and attack it proves you are cool.

No one thinks a wimp is cool.



Sometimes attacking her could have the wrong affect. Some girls might be impressed by your non wimpish approach and others might be totally turned off by it. I'd be careful on that.
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Postby Hamming » Sun Aug 26, 2018 7:41 am

Perhaps going for a walk with her and when she is in a good mood try to explain to her what you are doing during a game is only a game and it doesn't reflect anything bad from you towards her.


I do not feel good about it. Feels almost like I apologize her if I say this. Plus I probably would not be very honest and she would feel it. Because I like to attack her from something previous what she had annoyed me, which I do not remember already. But at least I remember how she treads her husband - it looks sometimes she treats him disrespectfully, not like a man. And that also make me want to attack her at least in the game.
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Postby Candid » Sun Sep 30, 2018 5:18 am

How about forget her? Why pursue someone who doesn't like you? There are plenty of people out there who will.
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