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Postby Candid » Mon Feb 18, 2019 12:44 pm

I daresay he feels the same way about you.
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Postby desperate788 » Mon Feb 18, 2019 12:45 pm

I guess so
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Postby Candid » Mon Feb 18, 2019 12:47 pm

That means you have something in common. Does he like his work?
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Postby desperate788 » Mon Feb 18, 2019 12:52 pm

Yes he is hardworking seems he likes working.
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Postby Candid » Mon Feb 18, 2019 12:56 pm

Ask him what he likes about it.

Sometimes the best thing to do for someone is to show an interest in what makes them tick.
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Postby desperate788 » Mon Feb 18, 2019 12:56 pm

I don't know if he likes being a tax inspector but most of the people here don't like their job
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Postby desperate788 » Mon Feb 18, 2019 12:59 pm

Candid wrote:Ask him what he likes about it.

Sometimes the best thing to do for someone is to show an interest in what makes them tick.

He says working is healthy
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Postby Candid » Mon Feb 18, 2019 1:08 pm

desperate788 wrote:I don't know if he likes being a tax inspector


Ask him.

desperate788 wrote:He says working is healthy


He's right. You can learn from him.
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Postby desperate788 » Mon Feb 18, 2019 1:14 pm

He says he likes his job even loved it when he was younger.
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Postby Candid » Mon Feb 18, 2019 1:15 pm

Okay. Time for you to practise conversation with this guy. Enjoy yourself!
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Postby desperate788 » Mon Feb 18, 2019 1:21 pm

I will talk to him more often
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Postby Candid » Tue Feb 19, 2019 7:07 am

Yes, it's easy, isn't it? And as soon as you show an interest, people get more interesting. I'm glad you talked.
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Postby desperate788 » Tue Feb 19, 2019 7:13 am

Yes easy but sometimes when I talk something inside attacks my mind causing pressure
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Postby Candid » Tue Feb 19, 2019 7:18 am

That's when you need to concentrate on the other person and ignore whatever's coming to mind. The concentration required is good for you.
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Postby desperate788 » Tue Feb 19, 2019 7:25 am

I tend to be lonely everytime
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