My girlfriend is friends with a lesbian.

Postby PhantomPain1988 » Sun Jun 24, 2018 2:44 pm

They've become really close. They've been spending a lot of time together. Sometimes, she goes for a girls night out with her friends including her lesbian friend. And, she's the one who always drops my gf home.

Other thing that worried me was when she asked my gf if she had ever been with a woman in her life. Idk if she was just being curious or something else was going on.

Its like watching my gf spending a lot of time with another guy. Know what I mean?
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Postby quietvoice » Sun Jun 24, 2018 3:35 pm

PhantomPain1988 wrote:Its like watching my gf spending a lot of time with another guy.

If this situation is not for you, then it's time to move on.
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Postby tokeless » Sun Jun 24, 2018 3:38 pm

I guess all you can do is accept she has a close friend, who just happens to be a lesbian because despite your insecurity that's probably all there is to it. If you try and close this down you'll lose her. This is more about you really.
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Postby Livetowin » Wed Jun 27, 2018 12:08 pm

It's impossible to weigh the merits of your concern because it's hard to know if these associations are being measured against how she acts with you or if it's only the appearance that spooks you. If her interaction and bond with you is unchanged, then perhaps there is nothing to see here. On the other hand, if you see a different pattern of behavior resulting from this exchange, then you need to inquire.
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Postby Mustafa » Wed Jun 27, 2018 2:51 pm

You have a choise: 1. Truth and suffering 2 Pleasure and lies

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