How do I fix things with my girlfriend

Postby wills_mufc2008 » Sun Jul 15, 2018 4:02 pm

Me and my girlfriend had a big fight the other day I don't want to lose her we have been together for over two years she won't respond to any of my texts or calls I really miss her I was ment to help her out as we are getting a flat but I couldn't help and when I told her this she said I'm a liar and said i dont care about her even know i help week in week out i dont know what to do i really love her
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Postby alexandra » Sun Jul 15, 2018 4:17 pm

Hey Will's,

Sorry to hear you're going through a difficult time with you're girlfriend. I'd suggest you take some time out as it'll benefit both of you. You've called and messaged her and her not replying is because she doesn't want to talk to you right now.

In the meantime, give yourself a break and stop mentally torturing yourself. Chances are how she's saying she feels which has led up to this argument is a build up of similar events. I'd suggest to reflect on those and spend time evaluating the situations from her point of view and yours.

When you're both ready then it'll be helpful for you both to talk about things and ask questions such as: how would you like me to help you with xyz, what do you need from me. It sounds like this argument boils down to communication and you both just need to talk about your needs and expectations.

Please don't contact her anymore, you can send her a last message saying that you're taking her not responding to mean that she needs space from you and that you're hear when she's ready to talk with you and that you would like to work on the issues she's raised.

Then just do you. Hang out with family, friends, hobbies etc. Hope this helps
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Postby wills_mufc2008 » Sun Jul 15, 2018 5:07 pm

Thank you it was very helpful I have already text saying when every your ready to talk I'm hear I have to start looking after myself
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Postby tokeless » Sun Jul 15, 2018 7:17 pm

There is a girl in work I really like we have been working together for over a year now we have a good laugh but recently I have been having strong feelings for her I think I'm falling in love with her I can't stop thinking about her every time I see her I want to tell her but don't want to wreak our friendship as we are close should I tell her as this is driving me crazy life is to short what should I do please my heads melted I have a girlfriend but we are having a rough patch when we are together all I can think about is the girl in work we have been together for over two years now

This is you isn't it? Maybe you should think about being on your own for a bit so you can work what it is you actually want.?
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