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#180

Postby desperate788 » Sun Feb 24, 2019 9:00 am

I was at that mood because of work stress. Also because of not being able to get joy from anything. A mixture of things. It's not fair I go to work in this situation.
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Postby Candid » Sun Feb 24, 2019 9:05 am

So go home.

Don't tell me fear of your father is greater than love of your mother? She needs you, desperate! And you need her.
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Postby desperate788 » Sun Feb 24, 2019 9:10 am

I suspect talking too much with my mothet on phone deteriorated me. Or I talked to my father for a short while that might do it too. I just want to leave work behind I'm not in a condition available to work that's the fact. But what will happen when I'm all day with them when talking for minutes deteriorate me?
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#183

Postby desperate788 » Sun Feb 24, 2019 9:12 am

Everything in ruins get me out of this hell please..
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#184

Postby Candid » Sun Feb 24, 2019 9:15 am

I keep pointing the way and you keep telling me you can't go. What else can I do? Really?
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#185

Postby desperate788 » Sun Feb 24, 2019 9:21 am

I don't know I need help a miracle to save me from my troubles
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#186

Postby Candid » Sun Feb 24, 2019 9:24 am

Quitting your job and going home doesn't require a miracle.
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Postby desperate788 » Sun Feb 24, 2019 9:32 am

If they don't accept my resignation? Quitting my job and living with my father doesn't sound good..I must quit my job but mustn't live with them this requires a miracle I think. I'm writing nonsense nothing can save me I'm off I'm a deteriorating moron I have such a terrible disease that if I do things I want to do a little it gets worse such a trouble anyways I'm off finishus dead end
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Postby Candid » Sun Feb 24, 2019 9:57 am

desperate788 wrote:If they don't accept my resignation?


I don't think they can force you to stay. You just tell them you're leaving, and when, and then you don't go back after that date.

Quitting my job and living with my father doesn't sound good..


That's tough. Is it tougher than the thought you had yesterday, when you were writing your own epitaph?

I must quit my job but mustn't live with them this requires a miracle I think.


No it doesn't. You tell your mother you want to live near them but not with them, then it's up to her to suggest a friend, neighbour or relative who has a spare room.

I'm writing nonsense nothing can save me I'm off I'm a deteriorating moron I have such a terrible disease that if I do things I want to do a little it gets worse such a trouble anyways I'm off finishus dead end


You'll be back!
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Postby desperate788 » Sun Feb 24, 2019 10:06 am

None of my relatives would accept me that's certain. Resigning requires a legal procedure I worry if a problem occurs and I have to stay. I hope i will be back that's morale boosting indeed thanks.
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Postby Candid » Sun Feb 24, 2019 10:16 am

desperate788 wrote:None of my relatives would accept me that's certain.


Would you choose to live with someone like you -- if you had the choice?

Resigning requires a legal procedure I worry if a problem occurs


But this is the problem. Every little step you think of taking, you immediately imagine the worst possible outcome, convince yourself it would happen... and then do nothing

You know you're going to die one day, right? So why the desperate terror of any little thing going wrong for you?
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Postby desperate788 » Sun Feb 24, 2019 10:21 am

I would choose to live alone . Indeed I always tend to think negative that's a major problem of me.
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Postby Candid » Sun Feb 24, 2019 10:23 am

desperate788 wrote:I would choose to live alone .


But then you're living with yourself. Wherever you go... there you are, ready and waiting to crush any little dream you may have of things you could do to make life feel better.

Indeed I always tend to think negative that's a major problem of me.


So stop it. Stop pouring cold water on every suggestion that might help you.
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#193

Postby desperate788 » Sun Feb 24, 2019 10:33 am

I'm unfortunately a self destruct man. I can't change its subconscious
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Postby Candid » Sun Feb 24, 2019 10:33 am

desperate788 wrote:Did I deteriote because I subconsciously want to go home? Actually I want to leave all work stuff behind and go to home consciously too.


That's your answer, right there. And you'll go on struggling until you DO IT.
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