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#255

Postby desperate788 » Sun Jun 30, 2019 1:00 pm

Please clarification
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#256

Postby desperate788 » Sun Jun 30, 2019 1:20 pm

I'm losing you there may be a trickery
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#257

Postby desperate788 » Sun Jun 30, 2019 1:22 pm

I want to go to istanbul be close to my mother
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#258

Postby Candid » Mon Jul 01, 2019 6:44 am

On February 24, Candid wrote:You say you really hate working at the tax office, so I suggest you leave, then you tell me you can't leave.

You say you really want to live nearer your mother, and you'd much rather live in Istanbul instead of Manisa, so I say go, I'm all for it. Then you come up with reasons why you "can't" do that, either.

So we go round and round in tedious circles, and nothing changes for you. You keep presenting the same "problems" but they aren't really problems, at least, nothing you want solutions for. So no one can help you.

Except you. You can help you. Only you can get yourself to where you want to be, with the friends you want to have, with the romance you want, the lot. Endlessly posting on here isn't going to do that for you.
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Postby desperate788 » Tue Aug 06, 2019 4:43 pm

I'm about to do an illegal thing at work there is a simple company with two share holders. I wanted legal books from two of them by writings. One of them was reached and hasn't delivered any books no problem at this second one couldn't be reached at his address due to law I sent a second paper according to law if taxpayer can't be reached a notice left to his door it stays there 15 days then it's accepted that delivery is made after that law gives 15 day to taxpayer to bring his legal books I sent the second paper at 22th of last month tomorrow it will be accepted that delivery is just made now for the sake of my report I want to ignore the sending of paper to this share holder and accept that books aren't brought but if the taxpayer brings books in his 15 days there will be serious problem that's a low probability but it can be. What say you....
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Postby desperate788 » Tue Aug 06, 2019 4:47 pm

You see what crap I'm dealing at work I will go crazy
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Postby desperate788 » Tue Aug 06, 2019 4:56 pm

I will fail about to give up I can't complete these works
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Postby desperate788 » Tue Aug 06, 2019 5:18 pm

I will explode
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Postby desperate788 » Tue Aug 06, 2019 8:38 pm

desperate788 wrote:I'm about to do an illegal thing at work there is a simple company with two share holders. I wanted legal books from two of them by writings. One of them was reached and hasn't delivered any books no problem at this second one couldn't be reached at his address due to law I sent a second paper according to law if taxpayer can't be reached a notice left to his door it stays there 15 days then it's accepted that delivery is made after that law gives 15 day to taxpayer to bring his legal books I sent the second paper at 22th of last month tomorrow it will be accepted that delivery is just made now for the sake of my report I want to ignore the sending of paper to this share holder and accept that books aren't brought but if the taxpayer brings books in his 15 days there will be serious problem that's a low probability but it can be. What say you....

What is recommended
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Postby quietvoice » Tue Aug 06, 2019 8:58 pm

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desperate788 wrote:I'm about to do an illegal thing at work . . .What say you....

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For what reason would you do this "illegal thing"? Is this the first time you would be doing this? Why are you posting this on a public forum?
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#265

Postby desperate788 » Tue Aug 06, 2019 9:15 pm

I'm about to leave this city the management may not give me the notice to leave if I can't complete this work as its time sensitive I trust people's thoughts that's why I ask
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#266

Postby Richard@DecisionSkills » Tue Aug 06, 2019 10:17 pm

For you, it does not matter desperate. You will be miserable if you do the illegal thing or not. You will be miserable regardless if management gives you the notice or not. You will not be happy, either choice you make, so it is irrelevant for you.

My advice...for once in your life...make a decision based on what will be best for another person. Do what is right for the taxpayer.
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#267

Postby desperate788 » Tue Aug 06, 2019 10:22 pm

Doing illegal thing may cause legal trouble I don't care taxpayer I just want to avoid trouble
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Postby desperate788 » Tue Aug 06, 2019 10:23 pm

So you recommend me to ignore
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Postby Richard@DecisionSkills » Tue Aug 06, 2019 10:41 pm

desperate788 wrote:So you recommend me to ignore


No. I recommend that you do what is right for other people.
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